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Faint positive, negative the next morning then faint positive

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jellybean218 · 05/04/2020 09:19

Yesterday evening I got a faint positive on a FRER as I have lots of signs (not sure when I'm due on as I came off the pill 7 or so eeeks ago) did a another this morning and got a negative  then another faint one. I'm so confused :( still got sore boobs, really windy (sorry TMI) cramps aren't really there anymore, dizzy and feeling a bit sicky. Honestly don't know what to think :( x

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jellybean218 · 07/04/2020 08:18

@mrsirvine @scottish26 @november90
I googled false positives on FRER and so many cases came up sadly :( but we'll see tomorrow morning when I have the scan, I haven't tested this morning as silly as it sounds I'm too scared. Just have a gut feeling tomorrow will show either a chemical or nothing. I will update you all straight away after my scan tomorrow, honestly you've all kept me sane! Xxx

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Mrsirvine · 07/04/2020 08:39

Aww I know how scared you must be. At least you’re realistic and if you get good news tomorrow we’ll all jump for joy. I have everything crossed for you tho . I am really hoping for you xxx

jellybean218 · 07/04/2020 09:21

@mrsirvine yeah I have prepared myself for the worst really so at least if it does happen I'm prepared if not I can be happy. Thank you so much! You're so lovely xx

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Mrsirvine · 07/04/2020 13:25

It’s such a shit anxious time. After 2 miscarriages I’ve been asked would I ever stop trying? My answer ... no way! If we want the little bundle of joy all this is part of the process unfortunately but it will be sooo worth it in the end. I’d love you to be on my preg journey with your own at the same time as me ! Xx

jellybean218 · 07/04/2020 17:59

@mrsirvine yes it's definitely worth carrying on trying! After my first loss I was so anxious when trying again and when I got pregnant with my son the first 20 weeks I was a little stressy mess! But once he was here it was all worth it! So definitely never stop trying!

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Mrsirvine · 07/04/2020 19:17

Oh I’ll say a wee prayer for you tonight ! Everything is crossed for you! Good luck for tomorrow xxx

Mrsirvine · 08/04/2020 10:12

Hope all’s gone well xxx

jellybean218 · 08/04/2020 10:29

@mrsirvine just waiting to go in for my scan now and they're doing bloods. So nervous! Xxx

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Mrsirvine · 08/04/2020 11:05

OMG I’m nervous for you too. Eeeeekkkk xxx

jellybean218 · 08/04/2020 12:13

@mrsirvine sadly a chemical pregnancy they think :( my hcg is at 37 so they said it could be mega early but with how long ago my faint positive was they would expect them to be higher. So I've got to have bloods done in 48 hours to check it's going down, absolutely gutted :( xxx

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november90 · 08/04/2020 12:31

Oh @jellybean218 I'm so sorry :( I was really hoping for different news today. Sending you lots of love and well wishes ❤️ it may not be your month this time but it will come, you will get that little bundle of love soon xxx

Mrsirvine · 08/04/2020 13:28

OMG Mrs I am so sorry. Was really hoping for you. My mc was 6th March last month and I got preg 2 weeks later so keep dtd just incase!! Hope you’re ok :( xxx

jellybean218 · 08/04/2020 15:00

@mrsirvine @november90 yeah I did expect it to be bad news but just absolutely gutted :( thank you for your support through it though I'm ever so grateful! And @mrsirvine I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy and it flies by! I will check in on this post so please do update on here so I can still have your journey with you! Still over the moon for you! ❤️ xxx

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cydb · 08/04/2020 15:29

Sorry to bother, but I was wondering if anyone can help. I took a Sainsburys test after my period was late by 15 days, and it came up like this. The line was very faint but I'm not sure if this actually means I could be pregnant or not. Could someone help as I think I may just be seeing a line there 🤷‍♀️x

calimommy · 08/04/2020 15:47

@cydb you need to start your own thread for separate questions.

@jellybean218 I'm so sorry. That is dreadful news for you xxxx

Mrsirvine · 08/04/2020 15:56

Keep me posted too. They say you’re v fertile after so I hope you’re in the same position as me in a few weeks xx

raspberryjamlove · 08/04/2020 20:35

Oh no I'm so gutted to read this :( look after yourself and really hope it happens for you very soon! Xx

jellybean218 · 09/04/2020 13:09

@mrsirvine I will do! And hopefully I will be and we can carry on the journey together! Xxx
@raspberryjamlove it sucks but I'm not going to let it stop me! Thank you, stay safe xxx

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Mrsirvine · 09/04/2020 19:30

Your attitude is the best one to have. Honestly hun. how are you feeling today? Xx

jellybean218 · 14/04/2020 10:11

@mrsirvine sorry for the late reply I've been doing extra shifts at work I'm shattered! I've started to bleed so looks like it's running its course, I'm doing okay just trying to look forward and know it will get better and I will have another little bambino soon! How're you? Hope you're well! Xxx

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Mrsirvine · 14/04/2020 14:23

Awww I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through it but at least if that’s over you will be able to move forward. You will , I got preg a week or two after first bleed. 12 days to be specific. So far so good here but still v early days. I’m so aware of what can go wrong that I’m trying not to obsess about this preg too much too soon. I have booked an early scan for Sunday 26th , I will be 7+2 then so crossing everything it goes okay.

How are you? Xxx

jellybean218 · 14/04/2020 19:27

@mrsirvine yes that's what I'm thinking, trying to keep a positive mindset! It's so easy to obsess about n the early weeks because we know what can go wrong isn't it :( BUT I have a really really good feeling and this little bean of yours is a keeper! You'll see a beautiful little blob with a heartbeat at your scan! I'm okay just working and entertaining my toddler :') who is still boobie mad so my days are filled and keeping me busy xxx

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Mrsirvine · 15/04/2020 07:28

@jellybean218 what age is your little one? Boy or girl? Your days are defo filled! It’s just one of them things, no matter what when we are having a baby we all have to go through the anxious period. It’s definitely harder I think for those who have lost , however don’t they say the chance of a mc after a mc is really really low and you should be really really fertile! Hope you’re okay and it’s over quickly for you xxx

jellybean218 · 15/04/2020 15:46

@mrsirvine I have a little boy and he's just turned 20 months, 35.3lb and 3cm off 3ft he's a hulk child :') still feeds like a newborn and eats really well. Loves fruit and veg :') so I have my hands full with him and work. Yeah every pregnant woman goes through it definitely but I agree it is a little harder for people that have lost as we over analyse everything don't we :') yes they do say that so fingers crossed! Have you gained anymore symptoms since finding out? :) xxx

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Mrsirvine · 15/04/2020 18:40

Aww lovely , he sounds just lush 😍 I hope you catch straightaway aswell. I don’t really, that’s strange for me as I was really sick with my other pregs xxx

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