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Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 2

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Annny27 · 31/03/2020 21:37

Hi ladies- setting up another thread so we can keep in touch :)

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SunnySideUp2020 · 18/04/2020 14:57

@Leok83 definitely positive!!!!!!! Congrats 🥳
That’s a nice surprise after the negative and temp drop 🐣💕

What symptoms did you have the past few days?????

Sparkl · 18/04/2020 15:02

Oh @Leok83 so delighted to come on here and see this! So happy for you!

Leok83 · 18/04/2020 15:13

Thanks so much ladies..I’m over the moon!!

@SunnySideUp2020 I’ve literally had no signs at all..a bit of heartburn but I get that all the time anyways. No sore boobs nothing..last time my boobs were in agony!! Didn’t get AF pains but today feeling a bit of pulling lower pelvis that didn’t seem like a normal Af pain but thought it was just another variation and AF was coming..last time got a temp spike and triphasic chart and all..nothing this cycle..like a silent pregnancy! And of course part of me is now hoping that’s not a bad sign already!!!

Ejb86 · 18/04/2020 15:18

@leok83, it will be around xmas won't it? Congratulations!!!!

MilsCookie · 18/04/2020 15:27

@Leok83 oh my goodness YESSSSSSS!!!! Another BFP for one of our ladies... I'm so happy for you!!! Congratulations!! Gives me so much hope when I see another bfp... so so happy for you! Do you mind if I ask what you did this cycle if anything different? How many times did you dtd in your fertile window? Congrats again!! x

Leok83 · 18/04/2020 15:33

@Ejb86 yes I feel like I’ve tempted fate but I’ve now looked at dates! It’s 28th Dec based on ovulation or 26th based on first day of LMP. So hopefully I’ll make it as far as having an xmas baby!

Leok83 · 18/04/2020 15:42

@MilsCookie thank you!! This cycle DH took the proceive max vitamins. We DTD the 3 days before ov and DH couldn’t finish the day of ovulation.had worn the poor man out 🙈! Apart from that nothing much else different, I ran out of vitamins just at ovulation so just been on folic acid and vit d since.

Thank you all so much ladies for all the congrats. It means so much to be able to share this good news with you and to have such lovely replies 🥰xx!

Sparkl · 18/04/2020 15:43

A Christmas baby will be so lovely!
I’m convinced no symptoms is a good thing!

TerribleImagination · 18/04/2020 16:07

Huge congrats @Leok83 - amazing news! ❤️

Whiffle77 · 18/04/2020 16:09

Eeek a Christmas baby will be lovely!

ChampooPapi · 18/04/2020 16:12

@Leok83 fantastic news! Absolutely beautiful frer there girl. You must be so happy and amazed and totally wigging out at the same time obviously!

Have you told your dh yet? Yay! 🌈♥️👣

Leok83 · 18/04/2020 16:18

Thank you guys!!!

@ChampooPapi feeing all of the above alright!! I want to tell him face to face and he’s not home from work for at least another 4 hours..it’s completely dragging by!! I told him yesterday we were out this month too so I imagine he’ll be as shocked as me!

MilsCookie · 18/04/2020 16:27

@leok83 thank you for letting me know! I might have to tell my DP to start some vitamins... eeeek I wish I could be a fly on the wall when you tell your DP! Such an exciting time!

Bubblybon56 · 18/04/2020 17:54

Hi, hope no one minds me jumping on the post. As reading through people’s situations makes me feel some comfort of my current situation. On the 9th April, I was 9 weeks pregnant and miscarried. But pretty sure growing must have stopped a few weeks prior as had light bleeding/Spotting on and off 😖 everything lasted all of 4 days max. Now just have light brown spotting. Has anyone ttc before their next period? Still getting very strong positives, like not fading at all 😞 has anyone ttc before the positive goes? Many thanks!

Fizzl · 18/04/2020 19:02

Ah @Leok83 biggest congratulations! Really lovely news.

Hi @Bubblybon56 sorry you're here with us but it's a lovely group and you'll get loads of support. I didn't start ttc until 3 months after but I had surgery and didn't feel ready so this was my personal choice. Lots of ladies started ttc'ing straight away. The only reason they advise to wait one month is for dating purposes so if you feel ready you can start again.

Annny27 · 18/04/2020 22:34

Evening girls :)

Seems like a lot of us were due in June then!

@Leok83 omg congratulations lovely!!! How are you feeling? So many people say they have no symptoms!! So exciting for you :D

@milscookie yes we do like to torture ourselves don't we! I have stopped looking at my apps now and trying to forget about what dpo I am! Hopefully it takes me mind off things

@SunnySideUp2020 well done you for resisiting the urge to test! I have dine that a few times and got rid of the fmu and then felt really proud of myself haha

@sparkl yes I would love love love to be pregnant by the time my due date comes around 💗💗

@scrumdiddly123 its looking promising that the lines are getting fainter :)

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Sparkl · 19/04/2020 08:14

Well my temps are on the way down and sore boobs have started so I don’t think it will be my month.
@SunnySideUp2020 cycle buddy I hope you have better luck!

Back looking up supplements. Has anyone tried Agnus castus?

SunnySideUp2020 · 19/04/2020 08:19

@sparkl i think i am also out this month. This morning boobs are completely deflated so i know my hormones are all on the way down which for me is sign AF is coming (as opposed to you 😄)

DP actually asked if we could test this morning but i was the wise one and said we shouldnt waste a test on this cycle.

It’s my birthday in two weeks and i really wanted a positive test as a present but guess it’s not happening 😫

SunnySideUp2020 · 19/04/2020 08:20

Never tried agnus cactus 🌵

Sparkl · 19/04/2020 08:41

Oh no! I’m sorry to hear that. I can’t remember if you do bbt?
How are you feeling about it?

That would have been a perfect birthday present 😢

Sparkl · 19/04/2020 08:43

@Annny27 June is both when we started trying and due date. Can’t believe it’s nearly come around. I feel like such a different person now.
Just have to keep trying and hope that we get there! 💕

Sparkl · 19/04/2020 08:44

Forgot to tag you @SunnySideUp2020 x

Hoppyhops · 19/04/2020 09:08

Hi all, just wondering if I can join you as you seem like such a lovely group. I’ve read back over your thread and it’s heartening to see some positive results so congratulations!
I had an early MC in March (on Mother’s Day, shitilly enough) but it was a bit of a weird one as I’d only found out the week before that I was pregnant, after trying since September, so it was very early but still not a nice thing to go through. According to my dates, I would have been due in early November.
At the EPU, I wasn’t given a lot of guidance about when to start trying again, when to expect AF etc., My cycles had been all over the place before- one was 46 days long! So I’m just not sure when this AF is going to turn up so I can start trying properly again. I’ve got OPKs and started temping the month I conceived but I haven’t bothered yet until the first cycle is done. Just wondered how long it was for others until you had your first period after the MC? Just to give me an idea on what to ‘expect’.

Whiffle77 · 19/04/2020 09:10

Sorry @sparkl and @SunnySideUp2020 - you never know until AF actually comes though, will still be keeping my fingers crossed. I know what you mean about feeling like a different person though, this year has changed me in ways I just never thought possible
I've not tried tried Angus cactus.

scrumdiddly123 · 19/04/2020 09:23

Morning, I think I may be about to ovulate? Is that even possible with hcg in your system still? I have no idea but this is what my lines look like. DTD last night just in case 😳
@Sparkl and @SunnySideUp2020 will keep my fingers crossed for you, you never know!

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