3 days late/bfn/no sign of AF.... HELP!!

[Mrskcam]

According to two different apps I'm 3 days late. If I'm honest I completely forgot it was even supposed to be my time of the month right now as I have had NO af symptoms whatsoever. I usually cramp a lot and get back ache the week leading up to af which is usually bang on time (only other time I've been late is when I was pregnant but that ended in miscarriage sadly). I did a test yesterday and it was bfn. I don't particularly have any pregnancy symptoms either so I'm confused. Only thing different this month is I feel very wet down there, thinking I've come on but it's just loads of cm. Anyone else been in this position? I hate limbo.

Hey!! Me too!! But I did get pale beige tinged cm this morning so I may be out :/ do you have any type of cramps?

@24kay2 nope none at all! Only thing I have is tons of creamy cm and my boobs are starting to hurt. Last time I was pregnant I got a bfp the day of my period... surely it would be the same if I was?

That sounds like you might be pregnant :) I’ve heard every pregnancy is different so you never know!

@24kay2 but if I was surely I would've had a positive test by now? I'm so confused, I actual am hoping I'm not pregnant right now 😕 what about you, what symptoms do you have?

With my first pregnancy , I got a positive when I was 7 days late. Right now I have super mild annoying crampy feeling and sometimes I eat or drink something and feel nauseous. The cramping and leg/back pain remind me of how I feel a day into my period so it’s weird that I’m feeling it now without a period yet. I’m wondering if it will be here tommrow and I just ovulated late. So far, all my tests are negative . I’ve been using easy at home tests I got from amazon which I’ve heard sometimes aren’t the best but who knows.

@24kay2 it's weird because now the thought of oh could I be pregnant has popped into my head I feel like I'm noticing more "symptoms". I'm lying in bed and I'm suddenly feeling a heaviness in my tummy and just things I felt when pregnant ... but I'm not sure if my mind is just fabricating it. It really wouldn't be great timing if I am pregnant but I think I would still be happy. When are you gonna test again? Last time did you get bfn leading up to 7 days late and then a bfp or did you not test before 7 days late? Paranoid as my cousin didn't know she was pregnant until 12 weeks along!

I didn’t even realize the first time and kept thinking it will come and didn’t. Totally was not ttc the first time. Right now with all that’s going on , it’s scary. I am probably going to wait it out until I am 7 days late again. Been having mild cramps all day yet no sign of anything. I feel like when we think we are pregnant we can symptom spot sometimes so who knows..we have been trying for 9 months so this time I just either want it to come or the cramps to stop. When are you going to test again? Every time I go to the bathroom I think it’s going to be there and then there’s nothing except more cm (sorry tmi!). Usually I am busy with work and stuff but because of all that’s going on, I spend the majority of the day wondering where my period is lol

@24kay2 I think I'm just gonna try wait out another week and just see what happens then. It's so expensive getting tests all the tome, even when you get cheap ones if they are just neg but still no period.

Hi! I am waiting with you - I’m a week late today ! Wondering if it’s the pandemic !

@Mikki2019 weird things have been happening lately haven't they...

What symptoms do you have?

Hey ladies! Hope you don’t mind me joining! I’m 2 days late, no sign of AF and BFN! So weird!

Totally weird yes !

I have had sore boobs , v bad mood swings and irritability !! Tiredness ! But also was poorly last week with poss cv so don’t know!

I did have sex this cycle but I thought I missed fertile time (not till days 17,18 and am usually 26-28 cycle )

Haven’t tested yet - also I am quite old so surely not !

@Littlepeas2 welcome! Seems there's a few of us having a weird cycle, let's hope everyone gets the outcome they want

Am sure it’s the pandemic !

Hope so! I am in the middle of losing weight for my wedding abroad and if I am pregnant I will have to move the wedding as the due date will be when we are out there :(

Are you going to test?

Can I join too. I’ve just done a test and got a bfn. I’m a week late. It’s so frustrating. I just want to know one way or the other

Do you have any symptoms ?

I don’t know how much I’m convincing myself I do but I think I have discharge that I remember having with my first pregnancy. I have a headache and feel tired (although that could be home schooling!) After thinking there was no way it could have happened so fast initially I’ve become increasingly convinced. I was genuinely shocked that it was negative. I used a first response

Though so I’m guessing it’s probably right. Don’t know why I’m so late though. I’m usually really regular

Another here! Never posted on one of these boards so sorry if I dont know all the lingo. No symptoms here except for an incredible amount of gas the last week or so (but were also cooped up in this house all day everyday) but am 3 days late from my normal cycle length. I honestly wouldnt think it took this month because of timing, but odd I'm late.

I should also say I took an early test and it was a bfn. No signs of AF either

@jules5232 I'm really gassy too at the moment!! So weird

Morning all ! Anyone anything ? I’m gonna do a test if it isn’t here by the weekend !

Nothing yet @Mikki2019 will probably test at the weekend. I haven’t got a single symptom so I’m pretty sure it’s just a late AF! How are you feeling?