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Driving my self crazy !!!

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Cse24 · 01/03/2020 13:06

Helloooo
Anyone wanna join this crazy journey with me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Trying for my second child πŸ‘ΆπŸΌ
So I stopped my pill December and I'm in the 2ww of my second cycle (I feel for those who have been trying a lot longer ) , last month I symptom spotted like mad , and convinced myself I was going to get my bfp.... af came and I felt so disheartened

This month I've tried not to symptom spot and af is due this coming Saturday , but I can't help but get my hopes up ,

Anyway if anyone wants to join the madness I know most of you will probs be in the same boat as me and we can drive ourselves crazy together πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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H8624 · 01/03/2020 16:51

I'll join you :) I'm about 4dpo so a bit behind you I think? Cycle 3 trying. Trying so hard not to symptom spot but it's so hard πŸ˜‚

AF due a week tomorrow for me (I have short cycles!)

Cse24 · 01/03/2020 19:57

@H8624
It's so frustrating isn't it , I hope we get our bfps ,

Like last month I got a twinge of pain and I was like that was defo implantation ..... it defo wasn't , every little think I was adamant ,

I think I'm going to test only if af is late , that was I won't get my hopes up too much , keep me updated :) x

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YellowFlower22 · 01/03/2020 20:00

Can I join the crazy gang πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ 8dpo and did my first test this morning. I just can't help myself!

H8624 · 01/03/2020 20:00

@cse24 yeah my first month I was convinced I was pregnant had all these weird feelings that I put down to it! Then 2nd month I had no symptoms at all so was convinced I wasn't, until AF was a day later than usual!

Going to try to hold out til AF is due to test! I have no symptoms normally for AF though except spotting a few days before, so it's hard not to assume everything is a sign!

Keep me updated :)

Cse24 · 01/03/2020 20:45

@YellowFlower22 of course :) that's exactly what I did last month of course bfn 😬

@H8624 I'm exactly the same as you !!! I'm not doing it to myself this month πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ and then I literally see a line that's not there πŸ˜‚

I think I'm going to wait until next Monday and if it hasn't arrived by then I'll take a test ....

Then if it's a bfn , let the cycle continue yet again 🀣

Are u both doing opks? X

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H8624 · 01/03/2020 21:06

@Cse24 confused now tho! Just had a small amount of blood on the tissue when I wiped (sorry TMI). I'm only 4dpo so surely it can't be AF already?! This is CD14 for me :(

Cse24 · 02/03/2020 06:39

@H8624 ohh really , I'll keep my fingers crossed that this is your month , I'm not sure if u get implantation bleeding as early as that ? But hopefully it could be that? X

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H8624 · 02/03/2020 18:35

@cse24 ok so it only happened once so maybe it was ovulation spotting! Not sure what it could be as too early for implantation!

Just a week left to wait for you now!

I am using OPks yes are you? I use the Clearblue advanced but also cheapies so I know when to start testing twice as I usually get my peak at lunchtime not first thing in the morning. I am also temping (or trying to!)

Cse24 · 02/03/2020 19:45

Ohhh yeah it could have been that fingers crossed for you :)

I'm literally counting the days πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Yeah I am too but I was testing morning and night so they got darker and darker but I think I missed the peak πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ
I've just been using one step , but next month I'll start temping and maybe using the clear blue instead of the cheapies x

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Cse24 · 02/03/2020 20:01

@H8624 I forgot to tag u in the last post πŸ™„ x

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marshallrubblechaserockyzoomer · 03/03/2020 01:32

I'll join, I'm 12dpo first cycle. Got a bfp with my son at 8dpo and nothing. Started to get af cramps so convinced she's arriving tomorrow. I'm so upset. We got pregnant first time with our son so I expected it to happen again

Cse24 · 03/03/2020 06:41

@marshallrubblechaserockyzoomer I was the same got pregnant straight away with my daughter she's 5 now ,

Try not to be too disheartened yet I remember last time getting the exact same cramps but I was pregnant ,
The symptoms are so similar arnt they and it's so frustrating when af arrives :/

Mines due this weekend Aswell x

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Cse24 · 03/03/2020 18:36

Okay so I caved and tested early 😬 I just felt different I'll insert pic x

Driving my self crazy !!!
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YellowFlower22 · 03/03/2020 19:29

@Cse24 congrats! How many dpo are you? That's a good strong positive! 🌸πŸ₯³πŸŒΈπŸ₯³

Cse24 · 03/03/2020 20:31

@YellowFlower22 Thankyou ❀️ I'm about 11 dpo I think , I was fully expecting a bfn !!!

How long is it till you can test ? X

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H8624 · 03/03/2020 21:52

@cse24 yay congrats! Great news to hear :)

YellowFlower22 · 04/03/2020 06:29

No nothing from me, did a frer this morning and BFN..

Cse24 · 04/03/2020 07:19

Thankyou @H8624

@YellowFlower22 oh no it's so frustrating but you will get there , please keep me updated everyone !!

X

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H8624 · 04/03/2020 07:32

@Cse24 7dpo for me today so getting there slowly!

Cse24 · 04/03/2020 07:59

@H8624 not long to go , when are you going to test :) x

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H8624 · 04/03/2020 08:02

@cse24 well my cycle is short (usually 24 days) which means I'm due Monday and usually spot a few days before... so will try to hold out until then!

I have no tests in the house and am not buying any at the moment so I can't test! Last month I wasted loads!

Cse24 · 04/03/2020 18:27

@H8624
I did the same on my first month I tested 6 times and even convinced myself I saw a slight line , your defo doing the best thing by waiting and hopefully your period will be late and you can test :) x

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