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TTC first baby thread 24

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Anny27 · 21/02/2020 17:28

Hi ladies,

Setting up the new thread for us as we approaching the end of the old one!

@whatsthecraic91
@validuser
@lozzlepop
@orangeloo
@timswifey
@MIW01
@1990shopefulftm
@lottiepink

And a few others who I can't remember their username from memory so please tag yourself :D

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Lottiepink · 25/02/2020 08:36

@FarmerWantsABaby don't worry I don't think you're crazy, I actually think that's amazing 😉 great news about the scan on Thursday too!

@Eatsleepbakerepeat congratulations!

@Anny27 ohh that's a coincidence, a bit of a strange symptom, but who knows lol, will keep 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you! The fact it happened last time and never again could be a good sign!

@Kiza that was a long time coming, least yous dtd at the right times too!

@whatsthecraic91 aww sorry your temps dropped, I hate that as you just wait for the inevitable to happen! Mine dropped the wed then af arrived Thursday morning. What time is you app?

Anny27 · 25/02/2020 08:52

Yes apparently 25% of women have them during pregnancy, when I asked my midwife she said you have more blood during pregnancy so the pressure of it flowing through your veins can cause the capillaries in your nose to burst more - fascinating haha!

@whatsthecraic91 ahh sorry lovely :( how many dpo are you today?

@Kiza yep prolonged my cycle from a 27-30 day cycle to a 37 day cycle!!!

@lottiepinkso you are cycle day 7 now?

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Lottiepink · 25/02/2020 09:43

@Anny27 omg didn't realise it was so common, well hopefully it's a good sign for you!

Close I'm cd6 today, done my cd3 blood test and results are back, waiting for a call from dr as some were normal and some apparently need discussed 😬😬

Lozzlepop · 25/02/2020 10:04

@FarmerWantsABaby i'm glad you have got a scan booked in but know how much of a worrying time it is, I have had 2 missed miscarriages so please feel free to reach out if you have any questions. I really hope that its good news for you.

@Kiza oh dont worry, I am a bit of a scaredy cat- mainly just around hospitals in general as I have a bit of fear of them which hasn't been helped over the past year! Woohoo for peak!!!! sounds really good for this cycle!

@Anny27 sounds promising lovely when are you testing?

@whatsthecraic91 sorry to hear it was a BFN, whats tomorrows appointment for again? Sorry my memory is terrible!

@Lottiepink what were your bloods for hun? Nobody has ever mentioned me getting bloods done on certain cycle days do you think this is something I need to look into getting done?

whatsthecraic91 · 25/02/2020 10:10

@Lottiepink it sucks, app is at 9am so hopefully she stays away! Oh hope your results are okay, let us know how it goes 🤞🏼

@Anny27 that actually makes sense! More common than you think too! I am 12DPO today.

@Lozzlepop I booked a private appointment with a gynaecologist as it was going to take a year to get my TV scan! So I'm not really sure what will happen tomorrow if it's just an initial chat or if I'll get the scan! Just didn't want my AF to be here for it 👎🏼

Lozzlepop · 25/02/2020 10:18

@whatsthecraic91 ah yes so you did, sorry! It might just be an initial chat, our first appointment was height, weight, BMI and BP for us both and I got some bloods taken then everything else was booked in after that.

Lottiepink · 25/02/2020 11:59

@Lozzlepop I got my day 21 test done which shows if you have ovulated along with lots of other things rubella, Thyroid, diabetes etc then this day 3 one was LH, FSH, progesterone and estradiol. I definitely would if you can, just rules things out etc I suppose. I wanted both bloods done so when we have our fertility app we can discuss the results.

@whatsthecraic91 aww such a shame, hopefully you will be able to get the test done before it arrives 🤞🏻thank you I will 😊
I would be prepared for the tests, when I rang about mine I was told for us both to be prepared for physical examination, but doesn't always happen.

MIW01 · 25/02/2020 17:03

So sorry to hear the sad news @timswifey hope everyone around you is being supportive!

Congratulations @1990shopefulftm

Welcome @Eatsleepbakerepeat @Lmac2018 a great group of ladies here!

Diagnosed with diabetes yesterday. In shock and absolutely devastated! Don't meet any of the criteria for type 2 so getting more blood tests to check which type. Been living a lifestyle that reverses type 2 for most people so not sure what this is. Blood sugar so high been referred to the pre-pregnancy unit and everything I've read so far says dangerous to conceive with blood sugar as high as mine!

whatsthecraic91 · 25/02/2020 18:39

@Lottiepink I just got CD21 bloods done but no mention of the CD3 ones, I might ask about that tomorrow!

@Lozzlepop thanks I'll let you all know how it goes 😊

@MIW01 wow!! I take it that diagnosis was completely unexpected? Do they have any idea how you developed it?

MIW01 · 25/02/2020 19:00

Indeed @whatsthecraic91 I am in total shock! I have no idea how this has happened. I have been eating low carb/keto real food for years which is known to reverse type 2. Have no risk factors for type 2. Hence being tested to see what type it is.

FarmerWantsABaby · 25/02/2020 19:30

Thanks so much @Lozzlepop I don't think I it has hit me. I automatically put up the defence when it comes to emotions. I'm already preparing for the worst.
@whatsthecraic91 my D21 progesterone levels were low last month when they checked for ovulation. So surely if I was pregnant then they should have been high. If I'm 6 weeks as the dr says then I'd have been pregnant at that stage. I hope everything goes ok for you tomorrow. Please keep us updated xx

Lottiepink · 25/02/2020 20:22

@MIW01 so sorry to hear that I know you have such a strict diet, however, I'm sure I read somewhere that having a Keto diet can cause type 2 diabetes if you don't have it already, I'm not sure for definite though, have you googled it?

@whatsthecraic91 OMG my doctor said that today, but I had googled it somewhere 🙈🙈 my bloods came back fine well LH, FSH and prolactin, but then progesterone was low which is what initiated the call (which it would be on cd3) she thought it was a day 21 blood, I explained on the phone and she said I've not heard of that test before, but I was referred for it by a doctor when I explained I was going to a fertility app - they did say that it's best to have had both done. So unless it's maybe only a test they usually do if day 21 bloods are abnormal I'm not sure. anyways long story short it seems my results were fine, and at least it's another thing tested 🤣🤣

@FarmerWantsABaby I'm not too sure on that, as day 21 bloods is only 7dpo usually, so that's normally even before implantation?

Anny27 · 25/02/2020 20:29

Evening ladies!

@Lottiepink ah I hate it when doctors say they want to discuss results it makes me super anxious. Well ofcourse progesterone will be low on cd3 haha!

@MIW01 I am so sorry lovely! Must be really hard news to hear and digest. My close friend has type 1 diabetes and he took it hard at first but is now managing it really well. I am sure there a lots of local support groups (and online forums) that you can join xx

@Lozzlepop I am not testing till 15dpo (let's see if that lasts hahaha!) Never been good at self control

@whatsthecraic91 ahh so you reckon AF is on the way tomorrow? :(

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Lottiepink · 25/02/2020 20:36

@MIW01 sorry btw my message seemed short, just re-read it. I totally get how frustrating and upsetting that must be for you, but defo worth a google. Your diet and the way you have stuck to it is fab, hopefully there is a way to help it all. Horrible getting that news though :(

Lottiepink · 25/02/2020 21:14

@Anny27 I know me too, it's the worst, especially needing to wait until the next day, so thankful that it was all ok though 😊 how you feeling?

Cha0907 · 25/02/2020 21:18

Hey

Hope It’s ok for me to join this chat!

This is my first time here! Ttc for a few months now and no joy. Period late this month but negative test this morning. Fed up feeling like I can’t talk to anyone about it so nice to see I’m not alone! X

FarmerWantsABaby · 25/02/2020 21:31

@Lottiepink I didn't think of it that way actually. That makes sense. My head is fried. I am so busy all day working (I teach), putting on a confident face, then I come home to tutor until 8pm! Once it hits 8 all I do is think think think 💭

whatsthecraic91 · 25/02/2020 21:43

@MIW01 hope you get some answers soon 🤞🏼

@Anny27 so far so good but I definitely expect her tomorrow morning, my flo is usually quite light until the second day so it shouldn't be too bad if she does make an appearance! How's the symptom spotting going?

@Lottiepink yea maybe! I'll ask anyway 😊

@FarmerWantsAaby thanks yes I will update you all as soon as I can 😌

In bed after falling asleep on the sofa 😅 AF is defo on route 😂

whatsthecraic91 · 25/02/2020 21:44

@Cha0907 welcome! Are you tracking ovulation? Maybe you ovulated late and that's why AF is late?

Cha0907 · 25/02/2020 22:02

@whatsthecraic91 hello! Yes been tracking ovulation using clear blue. This is month 3 off ttc and month 2 tracking ovulation etc.

I wonder if anyone can tell me anymore on chemical pregnancy? I hadn’t heard of this until today. Long story short I think I may have had this back in October. Period was late. Was totally convinced I was pregnant as had many symptoms. Waited over 2 weeks to take a test (negative) then had bleeding a lot heavier than usual period. It was this that really made us start ttc properly! X

firsttimetry · 25/02/2020 22:07

Hi!
Please can I join this thread?

TTC baby no1. I came off the pill in July last year. We have been having unprotected sex since but have only been 'trying' for the last 2 months.

I ovulated on the 9th Feb and on the 18th and 19th I had a small amount of spotting. Pinkish at first and then dark brown.

I am now 3 days overdue for my period. I took a test this morning and it was BFN.

Is there any chance I could still be pregnant or have I probably missed it for this month?
Thank you!Smile

whatsthecraic91 · 26/02/2020 07:21

AF has arrived this morning with an absolute vengeance 😓 in bed waiting on my painkillers kicking in 👎🏼 on to cycle 15 we go......

Lottiepink · 26/02/2020 08:07

@whatsthecraic91 awww no so sorry 😕 hopefully the pain killers kick in quick. Hope your app goes well today, let us know 😊

@firsttimetry welcome, yes your not out until af, fingers crossed for you 😊

@Cha0907 ive never had a cp, but unfortunately There's a few on here that have and they will be better to reply about that. But was that October period the one after coming off contraception or were you not in any? How long are your cycles?

Anny27 · 26/02/2020 08:10

9dpo and feeling the same as normal apart from have had 2 nosebleeds now and had nausea last night when I was very hungry. So gotta try and stay full to keep that at bay. I usually get increased hunger around tww so not a symptom as such.

Sorry lovely :( @whatsthecraic91 let's hope this cycle isnt as long! And good luck for the appointment/ scan - is it today or tomorrow?

@Lottiepink I am feeling good, resisting the urge to test early this time, it's hard to break that cycle! I admire your ability to wait for af Haha

@firsttimetry welcome :) perhaps you ovulated late, theres always a chance :)

@cha0907 sounds like it might have been a chemical. I havent experienced a chemical (have had a mmc) so I am not sure what it's like sorry

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Lmac2018 · 26/02/2020 12:58

Hi ladies, how is everyone today ? I'm 12dpo today, didn't test yesterday but period is due in a few days x