So sad today

[Wilsonicus]

Hey lovely people.

I found out I'm having a miscarriage today. We only discovered the pregnancy on Monday and it feels so cruel that it's been ripped away already. It's been almost five years of trying, so at least I got to be pregnant, even for a little while.

I know it's silly, but I miss my little sea creature.

Can you guys please share your positive stories of having babies after miscarriage? Honestly the thought of trying again feels insurmountable right now.

I am so sorry. Life can be very unfisr sometimes.

I know someone who had 2 losses and just had a little boy a few days ago after 10 years of trying.

Also our neighbors have had a very long and complicated road to parenthood and brought home their Triplets a couple of weeks ago!!!! Great excitement on the street from us older moms.

I don't have experience in this area but I just wanted to send you my love and a big hug

@Wilsonicus so sorry for your loss :( sometimes mother nature really sucks ;(
It's not my personal experience but one of my best friends had a miscarriage in 2018 and got pregnant again 2 months afterwards! They had a healthy baby and since then, they had another one too!
Hopefully you'll feel better soon (get drunk if it helps?!)... sending you hugs!

Oh big hugs. This is so horrible. I've had 3 chemicals since last May and have been ttc for nearly 2 years. It's so horrible in a few minutes of getting that bfp you have a whole new future envisaged and then it is ripped away. I know exactly how you feel. The bond is there immediately. I've heard that chemicals can be a good thing as it at least means you can get pregnant. Be kind to yourself. I found being honest with people really helped. I told my boss as I was due to chair an important meeting and she was so lovely and supportive. X