TTC ..... those with TWW Starting around 11feb ?come keep me company !!!

[Donnat89]

Hi all ,

I want some company .... currently in my 10 month of TTC after a miscarriage last March at 14 weeks

Due to ovulate around the 10th so my TWW will start around the 11th

Anyone else in the same boat ? Let's keep each other company

Ps I need support not to test early as drove myself mad last month !

Xxx

@LRHR thanks hun

Yea that's the plan ! Fingers crossed for this month x

How are you doing all?
I ovulated yesterday and we did it 6 times in the fertile window including yesterday... I pray for this month to be the lucky one! My AF is due on the 10th

@Adrianoska we are cycle buddies- I think I ovulated yesterday too! Might DTD today as well just in case. We've managed extra DTD with all the extra time & energy we have, so one upside to a lockdown! Fingers crossed this time, although been trying for over a year so my hopes won't get up too high. Busy week at work ahead so hoping time will fly by.

Wow @Adrianoska you're a machine! Wishing you and @Skyla01 all the luck that these egg stick around!

I'm really geared up for TTC this time round and will make sure OH is up for BD much more than the last two cycles. I'll also make sure to carry on BD for a few days extra as I seem to have ovulated later than I thought last cycle. Hopefully I'll master the OPKs this time so it's less of a guessing game.

He's in for rough time lol as he's a max 1-2/ week kinda guy 😅.

As silly as it sounds I'd love it even more if I conceived this cycle now that my friend is pregnant...

@Juno231 thanks! Sounds like you are all good to go this month! Completely understand wanting to join your friend- whilst we are all happy yo hear announcements it would be great if we could join our friends too. Hopefully we'll be able to join them soon!

If anyone likes a bit if yoga I started doing some fertility yoga on YouTube today. A woman called Bettina Rae. I enjoyed it- she tries to work on positive thinking too. Every little helps!

@Skyla01 lovely 😊 we will be waiting together ➕
What's your story? You say you have been TTC for over a year? It's is my 4th month... I am 36 though and my husband is only 30... I have two kids from a previous marriage. We did get pregnant 7 months ago BY ACCIDENT whilst using contraception! But we lost it unfortunately. And now... Trying so hard an nothing! So sad...
I really hope that this month is our month 😁

@Juno231 🤣🤣🤣 I am not... But my husband is! Seriously, he would happily go every single night. I don't mind 😜. Although I started to worry maybe we did it too much... I will try to avoid it now as apparently it can be detrimental during the implantation phase...
But now we are on the lock down... Working from home.. So much time... 🤣

I hope you've been ok today @donnat89 xx

12dpo still bfns but still having symptoms that are driving me mad- some might be cv (I've heard nausea can be?) But some arnt! A negative frer today pretty much means I'm out right? Why is it last month I had no symptoms and got a positive, yet this month I feel sure I am yet nothing?! Argh!

@sammyclaire22 def not out until AF shows! So many people don't get BFPs until 14-15dpo so fingers crossed for you. Which cycle TTC is this now for you?

@Sammyclaire22 just wait a couple of days.. I know easier said than done, I want to test and I am 1dpo! But with both of my children I did not get BFP until a few days after my due date!
🤞

@juno231 even with frer? Im trying to be realistic with myself now, I'm on Cycle 6 so I'm pretty used to false hope. My dd took over 12m and that was when I had 2 tubes so I don't know why I'm so optimistic!

Fc for you this month- I was lucky with my dd two of my good friends were pregnant just before and just after and it was nice to have people to share it with (and more so now the girls are all older.... if we could actually see each other!)

@Adrianoska month 13 of TTC no.1 for us. Just trying to be patient and not get too stressed. Would be going to GP for tests if it wasn't for CV, so more determined to try and conceive naturally ourselves!

I'm sure it will happen for us all soon, just need patience & to keep the faith. I think DTD every day isn't doing your chances any harm, although I've heard every other day is best. DTD is a good way up spend time atm though!

@sammyclaire22 yeah FRERs are the best out there but even then you may not have produced enough hcg for it to pick up yet. I mean technically implantation can be as late as 12dpo so a FRER wouldnt be worth anything that early on!

@Skyla01 oof 13 months is long! Fingers crossed this is the month. Are you using any pre-seed or any supplements? BTW I'm definitely checking out the yoga lady you mentioned as the idea of fertility yoga sounds lovely and relaxing.

@Skyla01 fingers crossed for you 🤞🌸
Do you mind me asking your age?
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Ordered preseed - figured it wouldn't hurt to try! I never seem to get EWCM so thought this would help the little fellas along.

@Sammyclaire22 don't give up just yet I got my BFP 14dpo and it was negative in the morning and positive by the afternoon, may not have produced enough HCG yet. My line was a lot stronger on a cheap test that the FRER.
Fingers crossed for you xxxx

Hi ladies. 14dpo today so did a test with my morning wee but BFN! So I’m sure AF will be with me very soon!!

@Littlepeas2 I am sorry for you. It feels so heavy and upsetting, doesn't it... But it is just a chance, next month you might be lucky 🌸

@Juno231 I sometimes remember to use Conceive Plus, but most of the time I didn't have a chance to indulge myself... Haha. Hope it will help you 😍

@Adrianoska I'm 33 so not really old but also not too far away from 35 which is a bit of a fertility milestone.

@Juno231 we use conceive plus but no supplements (apart from folic acid). We're both fairly fit and healthy. I'm quite slim but I put on 2-3kg recently to try and get some child-bearing hips...! I've only done the yoga once yesterday but will definitely be trying it again. It's great for relaxing if nothing else.

@Littlepeas2 sorry about your negative test. I hope AF stays away.

I am 36 and soooooo worried I am too old 😞

Morning ladies hope you are all
Ok !

I've just finished AF so looking forward to this month x

@Adrianoska maybe it helps if you already have children- your body has been pregnant and knows what to do! I worry that my body just doesn't know how (an irrational thought I know). Also I would love to have several children, but the longer it takes for no.1 the more I think I could run out of time for others. I don't think your age will be playing too big a part at just 36- you have regular cycles and your body knows what to do! And your OH is young and sprightly which I'm sure will help too!

@Donnat89 good to see you're spirits and up and you're ready to take on a new cycle! Any idea how long until ovulation!

@Donnat89 hope you got through yesterday ok, I always light a candle on the days where I lost my babies. Biggest hugs.

@LRHR how are you feeling any more symptoms?

@Skyla01 definitely not an irrational thought. Before I had my 1st I had a miscarriage and then it took me 14 months to conceive my DS and that was with the help of clomid and then he was a twin but I lost one. I remembering thinking the exact same thing as you. What if my body can't carry a baby, you try and put it out of your head but it's hard. Have you had any investigations or anything?

Hope everyone else is well.
I'm 14 dpo. Really thought this was my month but I don't a test on fri and sat and was bfn. Was a bit crampy yesterday, waiting on AF. I thought it was due today as I had positive opk on Monday 16th March but my apps say Wednesday for some reason 🤷🏼‍♀️

Xx

@Bic501 I am also 14fpo! Did a test this morning BFN. I’m due on today but now wondering if I’ve calculated wrong. Isn’t this waiting game horrible!