never had so many fights

[Thistle23]

Been with my DH 6 1/2 years , we don't often fight but since we decided to start TTC it's been a nightmare.

Massive fight yesterday as he thought I don't want children anymore. That's not the case , I'm just sick of the disappointment month after month.

Trying to get him to DTD is a nightmare, he's either too tired , not in the mood or can't finish.

He's the one that is desperate for kids, me I could live without them - he couldn't.

I just wish he'd take this seriously or just leave me alone. I can't cope with the constant disappointment .

It doesn't sound like either of you are that keen on becoming parents anyway , he can't be bothered to have sex and you're not fussed about being a mother. Maybe have a serious chat and decide if it's what you both want.

Yeah it does seem strange that he's the one who wants kids more, and yet he's not willing to do what it takes to make one! I think you need a really frank discussion about whether this is what you both want, and if it is then he needs to realise that he has to put the 'work' in to make it happen! Unfortunately TTC isn't always (or ever 😆) about being in the mood - it's a biological process that means that you only have a few days per month to make a baby and you have to go for it regardless!