Did we do enough?

[Hollyanne972]

Currently 3 dpo! Who’s with me? We DTD last Wednesday, then got a positive opk Friday so DTD again Saturday 3am and then again last night. I feel because we didn’t manage it Sunday that we haven’t done enough.. somebody please snap me out this feeling and tell me we possibly done just enough

@Hollyanne972 awh try not to worry (says me) but by the sounds of it you have dtd on the right days. Its easy to say don't worry. It may be you have your down day today i had my two days ago. It does get better and then it starts again. Sorry. But as you are 3dpo you are still in with a chance. So i wouldn't worry till and if you af arrives. How long have you been trying?

I had a little boy in November 2018, which came after a mc in November 2017 and I was a nervous rack but this time I told myself I would be so calm. We are getting married in feb so I just feel like another baby would complete us so much! Had the implant out end of October so In the grand scale not too long. I know it won’t happen over night. Just got to wait a little longer to know the results lol! How long have you been trying hun ? Xx

@Hollyanne972 sorry to hear about your mc. But a huge congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I came of the pill in September of this year and ttc first baby and so far no luck. Last cycle was the first cycle that I opk tested and i got my first positive on cd15 but af arrived end of December. This cycle i wanted to take a relaxed approach with the tracking aspect as it stressed me out last cycle. So i only started testing cd14 but i haven't had a positive yet (cycle length is 30/31 days). We have been bd'ing since cd11 and have been every other day and we plan on continuing that until I receive a positive or not by opk tracking. What got to me was hearing a few days ago that my SIL has conceived straightaway after coming off the pill in October. It really got to me even though im genuinely happy for her. I never thought that that this process would be this stressful. I was so naive to think i would conceive straightaway. TWW is difficult but try and take comfort in knowing that you have done all you can and you never know you may have done it this cycle. But i know its easier said than done.

Sorry you’ve had no luck so far hunny! It will come eventually. It really is just timing and luck! I know how you feel about the situation with your SIL, went through that feeling last time! Sending so much hope and baby dust for you, it really will all be worth it in the end! Xx

Can't remember the statistic but a vast vast majority of pregnancies arise from the egg meeting sperm that were already there, having sex when you did is statistically far more likely to result in a pregnancy than having also done it after ovulation on Sunday. Try not to worry, easier said than done I know, but science is honestly on your side here. Fx for you!