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AF ruined my Christmas

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Thefaceofboe · 23/12/2019 16:53

That may seem dramatic for some people but I can’t get into the Christmas spirit. I came on my period today after being so convinced December would be my month. I just want to be pregnant. I don’t want to celebrate with family or drink alcohol or eat nice food, I just want to be pregnant Sad

I really need some positive uplifting words

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Ginge35 · 23/12/2019 16:59

Awwwwwww!!! Don't be sad! You need to look at everything you have and not what you don't (not yet anyway 🙏🏻)
Too many people dwell in the negative and forget how truly lucky they are.
Your health, your family and friends. I have had two deaths very close to me this year and it really puts everything into perspective! We are so lucky to have what we have. We must focus on the positive and your mind set will change.
It's a difficult road when TTC but you must always remember what you already have.
Merry Christmas @Thefaceofboe. Enjoy your time with family and friends and I truly hope 2020 brings you your little bundle of joy! Sending baby dust your way ❤️❤️❤️

Thefaceofboe · 23/12/2019 17:05

@Ginge35 Your comment has made me cry (happy tears, I think) thank you!! I am generally a happy, positive person but it just got too much for me today and I don’t have much support from DP as he says ‘it’ll happen when it happens’ Xmas Angry so sorry about your losses, Merry Christmas to you xxx Flowers

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Ginge35 · 23/12/2019 17:28

I'm a very much "what will be, will be". Mother Nature is a funny thing. It will happen, patience is key! So sorry I made you cry @Thefaceofboe that was not my intention! Enjoy your Christmas and fingers crossed for January! 🤞❤️

Emelene · 23/12/2019 17:32

It's hard OP! How long have you been trying? I had this in 2017, I was sad not to be pregnant but tried to not let it spoil Christmas. Christmas 2018 I had a 6 week old. Smile My little girl is 1 this year.

We've just started trying for number 2 and my AF has shown up early. I'm trying to keep perspective! All the best for you on your journey. XxxThanks

Thefaceofboe · 23/12/2019 17:36

@Emelene Hi. Have been trying for 15 months now but I’m only 25 so I’m not in a rush but I’m so desperate to be a mummy it’s just really getting me down and I’m starting to worry something is wrong now. Congratulations on your baby girl and baby dust for baby #2 💗 xxx

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