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Don't want my last experience of pregnancy to be a miscarriage

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sophied1983 · 22/12/2019 16:20

Am feeling reflective at the end of the year. Feels like all of 2019 has been tainted by the miscarriage I had in March. And the month to month hope, that turns into crushing disappointment when period arrives since.

This month AF is due on Christmas Day, so that'll be fun... NOT!

Anyone else feeling like this?!

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Chanel05 · 22/12/2019 18:29

Yes. Mmc in April/May, nothing since :(.

itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted · 22/12/2019 18:43

Yes this year 1 miscarriage (due date was Xmas day) and a second ruptured ectopic now permanently infertile

I thought previous years were crap (previous miscarriages and ruptured ectopic) but 2019 has been totally shit

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sophied1983 · 22/12/2019 18:55

I am so sorry to hear that @itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted. That's a lot to get your head round.

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sophied1983 · 22/12/2019 18:56

@Chanel05 - sucks. Have your cycles returned to 'normal'? Mine seemed to take forever.

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Chanel05 · 22/12/2019 20:29

@itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted so sorry to hear that Thanks.

@sophied1983 my cycles after we're, in days, 43, 39, 35,36,35 then last cycle I ovulated on cd17 finally (used to ovulate 17/18 before mc) and had a 30 day. I'm on cd18 tomorrow and had a faint opk today so it's likely I'm still messed up.

Chanel05 · 22/12/2019 20:29

Sorry were not we're.

ceebee21 · 22/12/2019 21:13

Sorry @itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted Flowers

I had a MMC in September, af also due Christmas Day...not that long ago, but seems like a lifetime xx

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sophied1983 · 24/12/2019 17:37

Cycles annoying me. Recent ones 30 days, then 28. Last one 35. Now on CD34. So no doubt it'll turn up tomorrow/ Boxing Day. Seem to get all the pregnancy symptoms as pre menstrual ones these days which really annoys me as there's always part of you thinking "maybe, just maybe".

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sophied1983 · 27/12/2019 21:24

CD37, negative pregnancy test and no period yet. My cycles are doing my head in :(

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Whyhaveidonethis · 27/12/2019 21:51

I feel like this year has been the same for me. 3CPs and possibly 4, but I refused to test after getting a very faint line on a FRER in November and then AF came. I feel like it's never going to happen for me and like my body has totally let me down. AF arrived today for me.

I almost want to not try anymore. But I can't seem to actually stop trying.

I hope you get a bfp soon.

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