Anybody Wanna Cry with Me? 7DPO

[LosingtheTTCplot]

No reason for crying just feeling super emotional! 😭

7DPO, tested but BFN as expected. Feeling bloated like I have a balloon in my tummy, exhausted, sore boobs and really struggling with smells today. Worst bit is feeling like I could burst into tears.

I know this possibly isn’t pg symptoms but probably PMS, AF not due until Christmas Day either.

Sorry needed to rant. Anyone else feeling the same?!

Hi all may I join? So sorry to hear about all your losses, TTC sucks big time.
I'm 28, currently 8DPO, had 2 MCs, one in July and one in October. AF due on Christmas Eve and if doesn't show up I'll be testing Christmas Day and I just feel soooooo fed up with everything that I want to cry. My menopausal DM is driving me insane (dad works away and with menopause she got really clingy and emotional).

Hi ladies. Hope it's ok if I join you all.

@LosingtheTTCplot I really am sorry to hear about your CP and I completely agree with your post! Somehow today I just want to scream and cry! Feeling really down all of a sudden and I just somehow have the feeling this month I'll get another BFP :(
We only DTD on the day I got static smile and the next day. So don't think it'll work
why TTC is so blooming difficult?!! Why it's so easy for some people?! They only have to look at each other and boom pregnant! anyway! I hope you'll feel better soon and get that lovely BFP! Xxx

Oh btw if you look for "up yours...." post it's a great funny one about ranting about TTC! ;)

Wait I meant "somehow I have a feeling I'll have another BFN!" Gosh how sad am I to really want to be pregnant that I typed it wrong! Haha! Silly me!

Glad it's not just me! I've absolutely no idea when AF due (had a MC almost 6 weeks ago) so far this cycle I've poas loads lots of bfn & one or two (probably imaginary) squinters. Last 3 days I've had horrendous cramp as though an epic AF is brewing then tonight my brother announced they are expecting dc3.
I've not stopped crying since I got off the phone. I think it's just a combination of delayed grief, pms & pure jealousy. I'm disgusted & ashamed of myself for feeling this way. I have 2 beautiful ds who I adore & I know I'm very lucky but ttc is hell.

@Ange211 sorry to hear about your MC :( hope you're feeling much better now.

Oh same thing happened to me - few weeks ago my SIL annouced they were pregnant (a lovely surprise one as they didn't want to fall pregnant again that soon as their DD was only 9mo). And I couldn't stop crying for a week! I'm happy but extremely jealous as well! And think that life is unfair! Although DH and I are very lucky as we have our lovely DS. But same with you I do think TTC is hard regardless! I hope you'll get sticky BFP soon! Xx

@ceebee21 not sure if it's helpful or not but I fell straight away then had MMC too. On my 4th cycle after that I fell again with my DS who is 1. Doctor said that's about how long it took to get my cycle back to normal so hang in there, it could be your month!

I'm trying again so soon as I'm so worried it will happen again. I'm 37 so feel like I don't have much time if I lose another. Now up to month 6 and thinking maybe my eggs are all too old now but will keep going.

Obviously not as traumatic for me as I have my little one, but also feeling the stress of it!

@Ange211 there is nothing wrong with those feelings, you're allowed to be jealous and angry. And they will also understand too. You don't begrudge them happiness, it just seems some people will never have any issues TTC and that always seems unfair. All my brothers and sisters (5 in total) have had a boy and girl each, like the movies. They will never get how much has to be right in order to get pregnant (and for it to stick) as it just happens for them. Sigh

@Mrssendy Maybe its a subliminal message from one of your eggs telling you it's just been fertilised and that's why you wrote BFP! 😀😀😀

@SoonToBeMrs91 I hope this doesn't sound too patronising but are you sure you want to test Christmas Day, can you wait one day so it doesn't ruin it for you? I know that we all can't wait so I'm guessing not but maybe you could have a Christmas where you fantasise about being pregnant and then wait til Boxing Day. Then if it's a BFN you can have you Christmas come down and TTC meltdown together - knee deep in a box of celebrations. X

@Newbie1981 thank you, it's always good to hear stories like that, you end up thinking that was your one chance and it's gone.

Finger crossed for you, 37 is definitely not too old and I'm sure you will get a bfp soon, how many DPO are you? Xx

Not sure about anyone else but I’ll be testing Christmas Day (period due that day) as if it’s a BFN that I’ll be cracking open the Prosecco and draining my sorrows until next month! 😝 felt like a needed alcohol last night after I stupidly took a test and I’m only 7DPO, so obviously a BFN! But I refrained just in case my luck changes! 🤞

@ceebee21 I'm 8 DPO. Although have to admit I'm not 100% sure when I ovulated x

@Newbie1981 I know exactly what you mean with waiting till Boxing Day, but we're staying at my In laws Christmas Day night and if it is BFN I'd rather get it in comfort of my own home.

Welcome ladies, wow slept and lots of new messages to get through.

I tested this morning (8dpo) and think there’s an inkling of a line but really not getting excited as it’s probably an evap or indent x

@SoonToBeMrs91 ah yes I get that. Everything is crossed for you x

@Newbie1981 thank you xx

Being super emotional was one of my first symptoms! Me and my DH were watching Manifest and I just burst out crying 😂

@Holmes1990 yeah Manifest made me cry, I liked that show!

Hey all, relatively new to this forum and it's a great place! Feeling awful today, supposed to be my 1st period day, but nothing. I just took a digital lloyds pharmacy test and it's bpn, it's depressing, but then again not that surprising as I took a frer yesterday night and it was bpn too... What did I expect when I took another test this morning? DH is away for work and so I'm all alone. Thankfully I'm not working this afternoon, so I'll give myself some tlc with snacks and a film sighs

Anyone had a bpn on day period due but later turned out to be pregnant? Or is there no chance? I suppose until it actually starts, hope remains...

Hi @cremedore you could have implanted really late.

You’re not out til the witch arrives!

@LosingtheTTCplot you're right, time will tell...

I'll cry with you. Day of ovulation and my boyfriends gone to the pub, promises he won't come back hammered but I have 0 faith in that....

Oh shit! I'm seriously considering going to get a FRER! I said I was going to wait until I'm late this month! Trying to be strong for a bit longer but aaaaaaargh!

I was not strong. I tested....again. 9dpo and BFN!

Thought I had something faint yesterday but erm clearly was an evap!