2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

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Thread number 4!!

@nt1992 I've missed what was said but we support each other and that's the point of this thread. It's hard enough TTC and be a woman in general in this world- if someone doesnt like the content then find another thread but keep any other comments to yourself.

Dont let a bully win 💕

@mellymoo86 I don’t know why, but all three of mine include the same three days days, but the other three days are all out from from each other. Like you said I’m inputting the same data 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’ll just have to cover all bases.

We can comment, because you’ve deliberately offended someone else. So I highly doubt you were sending well wishes 🙄. There’s enough struggles for us all without us turning on each other. This thread is a safe space and personally it’s nice to unleash some of the crazy without being judged. To be honest what makes you judge and jury on how grateful someone should be from a few comments you’ve seen on here. You don’t know her personally. I’m sure she loves her child, we get that desire for a baby, so if she wants to moan she will.

@ChampooPapi if you have left before could you not have just left this one without saying anything to cause upset?? As i said in my previous post TTC is very stressful for anyone so to put somebody down like that when you dont really know them is just uncalled for.
Sometimes saying nothing is better than having a go at somebody!

Wow I'm not sure what I have missed but @nt1992 dont leave the group because of what one person has said because I can assure you that whatever they think is not what everyone else thinks. TTC is tough. It's also an individual journey. If this group is your only outlet then by all means carry on. We all go through tough moments every month and having the support of this group has certainly helped me at times. If someone isnt a productive part of the group anymore and has just come on the be shitty then please dont let that upset you. And please dont feel like you need to leave because of it.

@nt1992 you still with us lovely? Xx

@Blondeandbroody still here just sitting at the back for now💕

@nt1992 don't let some nasty person belittle you and your feelings. Your feelings matter and this is your place to vent without judgment. Only small minded people do what she did! We got you x

@Blondeandbroody apparently someone else in the thread has been referring to me on another thread saying the same things about me that she said earlier. I just don't know if I feel ok being here now if someone feels that way about me

@nt1992 if they do then they're just as bad as her!

You post what you want lovely I know I will and me and you are just as nuts as each other hahah

don't let it bother you! They're in the wrong, not you xxx

@Vipie I'm just calling a spade a spade love! No need for her to come into this thread and say what she said, to belittle somebody clearly having a tough time TTC, like we all are in our own way! Otherwise we wouldn't be here!

@Vipie I have not once made out that I am not grateful for what I have? I know I am blessed already! I don't need her to tell me that.

We're all here for the same reason and we were all fine until she shared her unnecessary and unwanted opinion.

Everyone is entitled to their say but sometimes it can be put a lot nicer.

@nt1992 sent a private message. X

@FutureMrsSmith replied x

@Littlepea90 it really is like mean girls. Horrible how 1 person can turn such a lovely friendly thread upside down!

People are entitled to have an opinion but theres no need to be nasty about it and clearly upset someone and get personal. Keep your shitty comments to yourself. Dont come on here and stir it up. This is not why these threads are created. They are here for support, advice and sometimes a bit of laugh!! No need for things to get personal!

If it’s safe to ask here.. else I need to find a new thread 😂

I tried to locate my cervix after a bath today. By Lord is that sucker hard to find. Literally don’t know if I’m doing it wrong or it’s a good hider. To be fair all my smears in the past the nurses have had trouble finding it so that’s probably why I can’t find it myself...

Any tips on locating or shall I reside myself to the fact I can’t use that to help me learn about my cycle?

@Unicornsparklez you can ask whatever you like here love!

It took me a while to find mine if I'm honest. I think it takes a few times to find and get used to.

But if the nurse struggles to find it then that could be why you're struggling too😆

@Unicornsparklez you can ask anything! I can never find my cervix but that's because mine is so far back! They need google maps to find it when they do my smear!! But I believe there are some videos on YouTube that can show you how!!

Hi ladies!
Me and Nt1992 are moving over to a WhatsApp group. If you guys wants to join us then PERSONAL MESSAGE me your number and I can add you in 😊