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Anyone had BFP without positive OPK? Fed up!

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KerryW87 · 12/12/2019 16:16

Hi everyone,

Just looking for a wee bit of advice as I feel like I’m not sure what’s going on! (Also I appreciate Ive only been TTC since October so shouldn’t be this fed up but just feel clueless!)

I had my implant removed in October, bought a Clearblue digital and used it in November. Had highs but never had a peak, and got my period after a 33 day cycle.

This month I used an ovulation calculator on Ovia, took those days as a rough reference and started using One Step OPKs a few days before the supposed fertile window.

I’ve never had a positive test, have had no ovulation symptoms and I’m now on day 21 of (I’m assuming) a 33 day cycle.

Has anyone ever had negative OPKs, no ovulation symptoms and still had a BFP? I’m not sure I’m ovulating at all and just wanted some advice or similar stories.

Thanks so much!

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CAG12 · 12/12/2019 16:24

Me! OPKs never worked for me, I never, ever got a strong positive.

Im 26 weeks pregnant though so must ovulate at some point.

MrsCl19 · 12/12/2019 16:43

@KerryW87 glad you've posted this! I'm in nearly the same situation but I'm only on day 15.... do you have the app Premom where you take a picture and it tells you what it is, also easier to track.

I tried not drink as much and I got better lines today so who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm just dtd every third day in the hope that works 😂

KerryW87 · 12/12/2019 16:46

Ah really? See, I assumed because my last cycle was 33 days that’s what I am, so I didn’t start testing until a couple of days before the window but I haven’t even had a HINT of a line...so I’m hoping maybe my cycle is going to end up shorter this month and I just missed my window as opposed to not ovulating at all? 😭 We’ve DTD every night during the window but think it might’ve been just for fun this month 😂

Here’s hoping, you’ll need to keep me updated then! Do you get any ovulation symptoms?

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KerryW87 · 12/12/2019 16:47

Oh, congrats! That’s reassuring to know then!

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KerryW87 · 12/12/2019 16:48

@MrsCl19

Ah really? See, I assumed because my last cycle was 33 days that’s what I am, so I didn’t start testing until a couple of days before the window but I haven’t even had a HINT of a line...so I’m hoping maybe my cycle is going to end up shorter this month and I just missed my window as opposed to not ovulating at all? 😭 We’ve DTD (doing the deed) every night during the window but think it might’ve been just for fun this month 😂

Here’s hoping, you’ll need to keep me updated then! Do you get any ovulation symptoms?

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MrsCl19 · 12/12/2019 17:06

I only came off pill end of October and then 6 weeks later I had an af but not noticed much. I'm tracking my cm and it's currently Ewcm so hopefully I'm close. Have you used an opk with fmu do you not get any line then either?

bluebell94 · 12/12/2019 19:08

I'm in a similar boat, been off my pill for 3 months, never had a positive opk! I've definitely had changes in cm though and definitely had a proper AF 2 weeks ago so who knows. I use ovia but also upload opk pics to femometer... all huge ZEROS 😂 that's with testing twice a day some days too.
Just trying to DTD every other day and hope for the best Confused

KerryW87 · 12/12/2019 19:42

@bluebell94 Aw it's a nightmare not knowing what's going on, isn't it? I feel better knowing I'm not the only one but then feel bad knowing you're in the same boat! 😂

Here's hoping there's a reason for it then and that we'll get BFPs before too long! That's positive that there's definite changes in your CM!

I saw that in November but feel like I haven't had any at all this cycle 😫 x

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KerryW87 · 12/12/2019 19:57

@MrsCl19

Hopefully with EWCM it means you're close then, will keep my fingers crossed for you!

I feel like I saw clear changes in CM last month but this cycle I feel like I've had none. I even bought Preseed to counteract that but think I've either missed the window due to irregular cycles or I haven't ovulated at all! To think 10 years ago I had my son by accident! How?! 😂

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