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4days late but BFN

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MFF1 · 07/12/2019 22:42

Hi everyone,
AF was due on Wednesday and she hasn't arrived although lots of cramping since Tuesday. This has never happened to me before as my cycle is 27 days exactly every month. I've done 2 tests using FMU and they've both been bfn. Has this happened to anyone and gone on to get their BFP? Or eventually got their period?
I had an ectopic last year and a still birth in March and am so desperate to be pregnant again but trying not to get my hopes up. Surely there would be enough hcg to be detected by a test by now?
What's with the week of light cramps?!
Sorry for the long panicked message!

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MummaShu · 07/12/2019 22:59

Hiya I was in the exact same situation! I was 7 days late with nothing but BFNs on FRER's from about 6 days before my due date (yeh i am not patient lol). About to call doctor about it and on my last test got a faint positive! Now I'm 2 days later and the line on the test i took this morning is really strong so it can happen! I was incredibly regular and getting all sorts of symptoms but the BFNs were driving me loopy. So as someone told me when i asked the same question as you- you are not out until AF turns up. Fingers crossed for you!

MFF1 · 07/12/2019 23:22

Ah thank youSmile congratulations!
I'm really hoping I have the same outcome. The whole thing is driving me mad.

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newlymarried2019 · 08/12/2019 08:06

@mff1 what is your plan to do next?

As of today I'm 7 days late (I'm on CD 36 of a normal 29 day cycle) and still striking out with BFN's...

People say you're not out until AF shows but I hate this limbo!

Laura407 · 08/12/2019 09:31

Same boat!

CD33, I haven’t been off the pill long enough to know what my ‘normal’ cycle is, but they’ve never been this long. I had my LH surge on the Thursday night 2 weeks ago, so I thought I’d be due by Friday latest. I had the usual sharp pain after, so I think I did ovulate.

Still no AF, light cramping and sensitive boobs but pregnancy symptoms too (pelvic pain, vivid dreams, unusually clear CF).

I’m not hopeful, but I had a MC last month so I’m desperate. I’m worried this could be linked to MC, but then I think I did ovulate at the regular time?

This is agony. I don’t want AF to show up, but I do want answers 😔

MFF1 · 08/12/2019 10:18

@newlymarried2019 I don't know what to do. Maybe leave it a few more days then phone the doctors.
I'm now CD 32 and got another bfn this morning.
@Laura407 I can totally sympathise with you. I don't want AF to turn up, but if I'm not pregnant then I worry why I missed this month?!
The whole thing is so stressful!

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Laura407 · 08/12/2019 13:39

well, guess I’m out. Just had first spotting. Here’s to next month :( hope you get a better result xx

MFF1 · 08/12/2019 15:51

I'm sorry to hear that. Fingers crossed for next month x. I just went to the loo and got something similar but like watery old blood colour. I'm not sure what's going on x

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CooperLooper · 09/12/2019 09:43

Same!! I'm only 2 months past having the implant removed so unsure around my cycles. But last month I started my period 4DPO, this month I'm now on CD33 15DPO with no AF and 4 glaringly white BFNs!

Lucylouxc · 09/12/2019 09:45

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Lucylouxc · 09/12/2019 13:23

Not sure why my post got deleted to be honest. You’re probably not pregnant as you’ve had negative tests. It’s possible but improbable

WINGING19 · 09/12/2019 13:36

Same...
Not been off pill long enough to say I'm regular but now 10 days late based on last cycle which was 30 days.... AF only lasted 1 day last time though & that was first one since breakthrough after stopping the pill.
No symptoms, keep getting the odd twinge that's it. Took a test 1 week ago & BFN, haven't bothered testing again but no idea what's happening 🙉

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