10dpo bfn am I out?

[MummaMonk]

I'm feeling really miserable. I was hopeful from the day of ovulation this month.... convinced myself this was it!

But it looks like a bfn atm 10dpo... feeling totally miserable.

I have some frer on delivery so should be here by the time I'm 13dpo ....

But thinking I'm probably out 😭

The nausea and bloating off the scale guessing it's a bug of some kind! 😖

You're not out yet! Indeed, many people will say not to test until your AF is due. When is your AF due?

10dpo is still super early so dont panic yourself

I think Sunday/Monday of next week!

I just see so many get a bfp at 8dpo! Makes me feel like it isn't going to happen 😔

A lot of it depends (I think) on when the egg implants itself in you as that's when the HCG starts getting produced giving a positive test. So the 8dpo BFPs might have implanted earlier. Just keep your fingers crossed, there's still hope until that pesky AF shows :)

You're not necessarily out. Id re-test on day your period is supposed to be here. FWIW the month I conceived I was bloated and just felt generally crap way before I got a positive preggo test.

Thanks both for the optimism!

In my logical brain I know i shouldn't have even tested yet.

But the desperate ttc part is so impatient and every month convinces itself this is it!

I don't know how people used to ttc without being able to chat and gain solidarity!

You're not out until AF shows. When we were TTC I used to test early and it would kill me seeing a bfn so I told myself to only test when my period was late. It still took 18 months but my next test I was 3 days late and it was a very obvious bfp. Try and hold off until you're due AF

I'm 11DPO and also had a BFN, but also thought this was going to be my month! I know logically there is still a chance, but finding it very hard to be even a little optimistic. Going to get DH to hide the FRERs next cycle so I can't test early!

Hopefully we both just tested too early, crossing my fingers for you 🤞