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TWW. AF DUE 30/11 ANYONE ELSE IN THE TWW

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Mothertoone2 · 20/11/2019 07:47

Hey all!

AF is due for me on 30th November, I don't plan on testing early unless there is obvious signs or symptoms. I'm currently 3dpo. Even though I probably won't be able to help myself haha.

Anyone else in the same boat?

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Crazymummyto3 · 26/11/2019 06:28

I'm currently on CD27. My previous cycles have been 28, 27 and 33 days so I'm not really sure when AF is due. I've just done an IC and it's negative, am I right to think there's no point in doing a FRER yet in that case?

Wackadoodle84 · 26/11/2019 09:22

Welcome aboard @Ziggystarduck, all those symptoms sound promising! With regards to the bfn, your not out until AF shows up so fingers crossed it was just too early.

@Crazymummyto3 maybe test again in a few days?

@ScaredFlamingo how is my fellow POAS addict doing today 🤣. This is day 2 of no testing, am getting withdrawal !

Plenty of cramping today, feels very AF like so I suppose will know for sure in the next few days. Am gearing myself up for next months 2ww already, not really expecting to get a bfp on my first month of proper trying

🤞 for everyone waiting to test

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 09:30

@wackadoodle84 I am nauseous again this morning. Felt like I was getting a fever last night. Slight feelings in my womb but more pressure than cramping. I have refrained from testing but soooo tempted to do so in the morning - due tomorrow/Thursday ... hold out or test??

Wackadoodle84 · 26/11/2019 09:36

@scaredflamingo, Those symptoms sound very promising! How about we both test Thursday morning? We can hold out!

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 09:41

@wackadoodle84 they are unusual for me but it could be my body playing tricks or I’m getting sick?! Well, I thought tomorrow as I have a session with my counsellor so at least she might be able to help me through either the sadness of a negative or the panic of a positive haha!

ceebee21 · 26/11/2019 09:52

10DPO and another BFN... really thought I could see the faintest of line's, but feel like I am imagining things.

Constantly googling BFN @ 11DPO and hoping to see faint lines!!!

x

ElizabethBennet3rd · 26/11/2019 10:15

Morning everyone! How are we all holding up? Promised myself I won't test again until Wednesday but so very tempted (is it too early even for FRER at anywhere between 9-13 DPO?). I've been unwell with what I thought was flu the last 2 days but it seems to have magically vanished. Whats that all about? Heartburn is absolutely destroying me right now too.

@ceebee21 You could definitely still be testing too early. I've read so many threads of women not getting BFB until 14+ DPO. You're still in!

@Wackadoodle84 @ScaredFlamingo good luck holding out until Thursday - I hope by the end of the week we have lots of BFP and can move the chat to obsessing about our early pregnancy symptoms!

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 10:24

@elizabethbennet3rd
I’m struggling with some icky heartburn/acid throat too! Good the flu is gone but how strange... maybe baby growing symptoms??? Hold out!! I read somewhere that before 13 dpo it’s so unlikely you’ll get a clear result!!

@ceebee21 - def too early!! Wait for the end of the week? When you due?

I’m torn between just testing and finding out to just wait and see if AF comes. Save me money at least haha!

Lucy5546 · 26/11/2019 10:31

Hey ladies mind if i tag along.? Im only recently off the pill so i dont know when AF is due. Think its this week. I am on cycle day 29. Last month was 28 days but not classing meself as late yet as id say my cycle is not consistent yet. I havnt had much symptoms just generally tired and a few cramps here and there. When do you guys think i should test? I was thinking the end of the week? I have been feeling like AF is going to make an appearance soon so i dont want to test too early!!

ceebee21 · 26/11/2019 10:50

@ElizabethBennet3rd @ScaredFlamingo I know I need to wait - so hard.

I am not sure tbh... I had the implant and didn't have periods throughout!

Came off and fell pregnant straight away - had a BFP 4 weeks to the day after removal, but unfortunately ended in MMC, then after the MMC AF arrived 11DPO, so could well come tomorrow, but maybe Saturday. Who knows!

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 11:36

@ceebee21
It is really hard but it’s easier than day after day of BFN?
Really sorry to hear about previous MMC.. hopefully soon you’ll get your BFP and have a happy and healthy 9 months.
Hold out testing until the weekend. At least you can have a few glasses of wine if it’s a BFN (if what I’m using to keep myself positive haha!)

I keep coming over super hot but again... could be sick and/or PMS. I can’t decide if I’m feeling pregnant or period or just done with the whole thing already!!

ElizabethBennet3rd · 26/11/2019 12:06

@ceebee21 I am in a similar position as I had DEPO for years before TTC. No periods at all. Whilst I'm pretty sure my cycles are back and I'm ovulating regularly, the cycles vary between 28 and 33 days so it's hard to know when AF is due. Pretty sure it should come in the next few days though.

The hardest bit is constantly having no reassurance and therefore convincing myself the symptoms are all in my head and I'll just get AF soon.

@ScaredFlamingo The wine is what gets me through too! Might not be yet so at least I'll have another glass of red tonight before I have to give up my favourite habbit!

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 12:24

If I’m not pregnant then my body is really evil. Just had to cancel meetings this afternoon as feel like I could vomit any minute or pass out.. or both. Partner taking me home over lunch.
I’m either knocked up or really unwell 😩

ElizabethBennet3rd · 26/11/2019 12:27

@ScaredFlamingo lets hope for knocked up then! Wink Sorry to hear you're feeling poorly though. Get well soon xx

MummaShu · 26/11/2019 13:29

Just took a frer and its a bfn :(. Due on Thursday but thinks its a miss for this month. Best of luck for everyone else though!

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 13:53

@ElizabethBennet3rd I just bought some tests. So nervous to do them.. if BFN then I’m gonna be sad, if BFP then im gonna panic/freak out... period due tomorrow..

ElizabethBennet3rd · 26/11/2019 14:04

@ScaredFlamingo I'm even nervous for you! Are you still adamant you are waiting until Thursday to test? I might be due anywhere between Wed-Sun so I really must wait a while! Ordered FRER on Amazon though, they will arrive tomorrow!

@MummaShu you're not out until AF shows. So many women don't get a BFP until after a missed period, even on tests that say they can pick up early. That 99% accuracy is after the missed AF I think. Their accuracy before AF is lower. Don't give up just yet!

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 14:10

@elizabethbennet3rd I think with this new development then it might be worth me testing today.. what if it’s all just nothing?! Ahhh I dunno what to do!! Nervous!!
I’ve been sober all month.. if it’s positive then I don’t even get my last drink?! Ha!

ElizabethBennet3rd · 26/11/2019 14:14

@ScaredFlamingo If it's positive you won't care about that last drink, you'll be too excited! And if it's negative you can have the drink - knowing that actually you might get a BFP in a few days but weren't pregnant 'enough' at this point for a glass of vino to do any harm. Not trying to fuel your POAS problem here, just the way I see it. Always manage to talk myself into these things somehow Hmm

Wackadoodle84 · 26/11/2019 14:15

Best of luck for tomorrow so @ScaredFlamingo, keeping everything crossed for a nice shiney bfp for you 🤞

@ceebee21 10dpo is still very early, you definitely not out yet

@elizabethbennet3rd the waiting to test is just awful isn’t it, what day are you planning on testing?

Shuckle · 26/11/2019 14:16

@ElizabethBennet3rd I feel you on the heartburn, mine has been awful! Yeah I would say 9dpo is still likely too early with a FRER, especially if you have only just/not yet implanted.

Welcome @Lucy5546! Id probably until day after your longest cycle, but try not to be too disheartened if its not to be this month, cycles can take a while after coming off the pill! Did you use OPK's this month?

@ScaredFlamingo @Wackadoodle84 keep going, keep going, you can do it Grin. 10DPO today for me and I am still resisting the urge to pee on stuff, its getting very hard!

I had some very light pink CM last night and my metallic taste is still coming and going, plus sore boobs/nipples, really hoping we have some BFP's by the weekend! This last week has DRAGGED and now I want to see some results haha! Resorting to trawling the conception boards for people wanting people to look for lines on their tests!!

Wackadoodle84 · 26/11/2019 14:19

@ScaredFlamingo just seen your latest message, my theory would be if your pregnant enough to be having symptoms then surely your pregnant enough for it to show up on a test?

ScaredFlamingo · 26/11/2019 14:25

@wackadoodle84 I knowwww but what if it’s negative ... I’m so nervous to test.

Wackadoodle84 · 26/11/2019 14:34

@scaredflamingo I definitely think if a bfn will be very upsetting then maybe you should hold out until you are late to test

Wackadoodle84 · 26/11/2019 14:37

@Shuckle I’ve just ordered some first response online that won’t be here until next week! The way i am cramping now though I’m pretty sure I’m out this month. I’m laughing here at you trawling for ‘can you see the line’ threads, glad it’s not just me 😂