TWW. AF DUE 30/11 ANYONE ELSE IN THE TWW

[Mothertoone2]

Hey all!

AF is due for me on 30th November, I don't plan on testing early unless there is obvious signs or symptoms. I'm currently 3dpo. Even though I probably won't be able to help myself haha.

Anyone else in the same boat?

Just had result from doctor. Negative..

@scaredflamingo big hugs. xxxx

@lebw Thanks!

Af still not here, if she doesn’t come I have to re-test. Could have been too early but I expected she’ll be rearing her ugly head soon enough.

@ScaredFlamingo so sorry to hear it's not good news yet. May have just been too early...time will tell. Looks like we're both still playing the waiting game!

I'm right there with you. Keep thinking no I'm not then thinking oh but I could be....

Next month I've already decided I'm buying one decent test and only and only then will I use it if AF is late. I can't have this taking over my every thought again and getting so sad everytime I get a BFN!

Also read SO MUCH advice/spoke to people who are a fountain of knowledge on tips of how to increase chances, so will put it all into full force next month so hopefully I ring the new year in with a BFP....will not be having a drop of alcohol over Christmas either way booooooooo

@LEBW that's exactly what it's like! I convince myself I am, I test - BFN. Disappointment for about a day before I realise AF still not arrived and suddenly start to convince myself that the test was faulty/too early because I might ACTUALLY be pregnant...and here we go again. I think AF needs to show up just to put me out of my misery!

AF is here. What a bitch... get my hopes up only to come a few hours after I get a BFN!

@ScaredFlamingo. Nooo!! Sorry she has arrived.!! Think of it in a good way atleast your not in limbo waiting for it or your BFP.

Im still waiting.!! Cramps have returned today. I am hoping that i tested too early but i doubt it. CD32 now.

@ElizabethBennet3rd and @LEBW i am the same. One day i think i could be pregnant and the next im like theres no chance. Its funny how or body's work!!

@lucy5546 To be honest I felt more relieved when she did come. Blood tests were negative and likelihood of it being a false was low so actually coming on my period meant I was still within boundaries of regular cycle and no more wondering and waiting.
No obsessing for couple of weeks will be a nice break!!

Fingers crossed for everyone still waiting for their BFP, and those that don’t get one... we get to drink at all the Christmas parties 😉😂

@ScaredFlamingo thats true.!! Enjoy the break. Think ill be taking a break until the new year myself as long as i get answers soon!!!

@lucy5546 This was my first month trying and probably my first month paying so much attention to my body. Hopefully it’ll set me up nicely for future cycles and when I do finally get my BFP. But I def need a break from the obsessing... it’s exhausting haha!

I say this now... bet I’m back and exactly the same POAS’ing enthusiast that I have been this month haha!

HELP I started to pee every 20mins today so took another FRER. Is there a vvvfaint line here or have I gone insane?!

Elizabethbennet3rd that looks like my test then two days later I got a confirmed bfp!!

Good luck xx

@Mothertoone2 thank you. I feel like I’m imagining it because it’s so faint but I swear I see it! I’m going to test again with FMU tomorrow. If I’m not peeing all through the night 😂

@elizabethbennet3rd Everything crossed for you!!! Update us in the morning!!

Hi ladies! Sorry for jumping on the thread but I'm looking for advice; I'm 11 dpo tomorrow and hoping to test as we have plans tomorrow evening that involves drinking copious amounts of alcohol.. Obviously this can only happen if I'm not pg.

But I'm worried that this is too early to test? AF isn't due until Tuesday however I've got some wicked symptoms - cramping, sore boobs, bleeding gums and I'm really tired (although all of this could perhaps be down to the fact that I'm worn down from such a rough term at school)

What would you do? Test tomorrow and put your mind at rest, although it's early. Wait until Tuesday and make excuses not to drink? Wait until Tuesday and drink anyway...

Thanks in advance for your help 😍

Af due today, no sign of her. Tested lunchtime bfn 😔 on CB digital! I just want to see that bfp!

Congratulations to the bfp ladies

@newlymarried2019 I had a similar situation this week as have a hen party and also had a spa day planned. I took a test at 9 dpo and got a faint positive, was then confirmed on a digital at 10 dpo. I've had a previous loss so didn't want to risk anything, feel better that I checked as I would have felt awful if something happened following me enjoying myself too much.

In reality though, if you are pregnant then the placenta will not have formed yet and so alcohol will not have a direct effect at this point. Many women don't even know they are pregnant at this point and so wouldn't know not to drink.

CD31 for me (previous cycles were 28, 27 and 33 days). No signs of AF. I've done an IC this morning and I think there is a vvv faint line but not convinced it's not an evap, and a BFN on a FRER so it's looking like I'm out again this month. I was really hoping for a BFP for Christmas ☹️

@ScaredFlamingo sorry to here about BFN and af arrival. Hope you ok, the waiting and watching for symptoms can be just so exhausting, hopefully a Christmas bfp in enroute for both of us

@elizabethbennet3rd I can see a v faint line! Have you tested this morning? Fingers crossed for you!

@Mothertoone2 congrats on your bfp!

@Crazymummyto3 maybe your ovulated a bit later and will get a bfp in a few days?

@Wackadoodle84 well, she seems to be quite shy... I thought I was on and I have cramps but only a bit of spotting?! Ugh I’m done haha!

Tested this morning and BFN. I do not know what is going on. Feel like crying. Symptoms still there and still no AF. This is torture!

@elizabethbennet3rd Oh hun!! I know, the limbo is horrible...! If nothing by Monday then I’d make an appointment with your dr x

So i start3d spotting this morning. Looks like im out this month