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BFN at 9DPO is BFP possible?

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ttciom · 05/11/2019 14:43

Hi all, brand new here and looking for a bit of reassurance/advice/honesty!
It's our 3rd month TTC (I'm 26 hubby is 28), we got a BFP the 1st month but unfortunately ended in a miscarriage.
Last months cycle was heavier than usual - as to be expected & this months is due in 6 days (according to Flo). I took a test this morning (9DPO) as I've been having some symptoms but it was a BFN. My symptoms are:
Cramping - been cramping and having twinges since ovulation~
Nausea - small waves off an on
Veiny Boobs
Indigestion - never suffer with this, but the past 3 days non-stop
Exhaustion
Bloating
Am I just being a crazy symptom spotter or do you think we have a chance this month?

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ttciom · 05/11/2019 14:53

I've also been really short of breath which again is unusual for me

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bellebox19 · 05/11/2019 15:21

Absolutely still possible. I've read that you can implant up to 12dpo...

I had BFN's on 10 and 11DPO then I got a very faint line on 12 dpo. I tested on 14DPO with a CB digital and it was positive. I'm 5 weeks now. I really thought I was out!

Good luck xx

sarahc336 · 05/11/2019 15:42

9 dpo would be very early for a bfp, I got a bfn at 11dpo then at 13 suddenly got a bfp so you are early at 9 dpo Smile

coffeecow · 05/11/2019 15:57

I'm exactly the same timings as you OP and also had a BFN yesterday, fingers crossed for us both. I am hanging onto the fact that there's a few more days in us hopefully!

Do you know how many dpo you were when you had your BFP last time?

ttciom · 05/11/2019 16:15

Thanks all for your responses, I feel like I'm going crazy and noticing every little twinge going on.

@coffeecow - it was 2 days before my period so 12dpo (?) I think - I wasnt charting anything at that point so it could be out! Fingers crossed for us this month! Are you going to test before AF is due?

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June1987 · 05/11/2019 16:29

I had BFN on 10dpo and then 12dpo got a positive so your not out. Try not to symptom spot though as you will drive yourself crazy x

coffeecow · 05/11/2019 17:22

@ttciom Well that's hopeful, you may just need a few more days for the hormones to do their business.

AF is due Saturday for me, so I'm really wanting to hang on until Friday before I test again but that feels like a lifetime away. I find the waiting and testing to be really emotionally draining.

ttciom · 05/11/2019 17:26

Well walking home from work I’ve just had to stop to throw up & just gone into a mad hot sweat. If I’m not PG my body is playing cruel tricks on me!

Everything crossed for you @coffeecow

Also congratulations @bellebox19 @sarahc336 @June1987

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coffeecow · 05/11/2019 17:36

@ttciom Blimey it certainly sounds like something is going on! When do you think you will test again?

emwithme · 05/11/2019 17:44

I had a BFN at 13 dpo, BFP at 15 dpo.

ttciom · 05/11/2019 19:34

Going to hold out till Friday and do a cheapie. I’m so impatient, this is literal torture for me 😩

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coffeecow · 05/11/2019 22:05

@emwithme That gives me some hope!

@ttciom I'm the same. It consumes me completely, I hate it! Just want to know either way so I can deal with it and move on. I'll follow your lead and try and hold off until Friday 🤞✨

JLM16 · 04/04/2020 16:57

@ttciom I know this is last year but I wondered what your outcome was? I’m in the same situation and would love to know xx

ttciom · 06/04/2020 10:14

@JLM16 unfortunately we’re still trying, af arrived late that month, but everyone is different - so certainly don’t lose hope until she arrives. Sending you so much love and baby dust xx

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