Anyone starting the TWW #2

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Hey ladies, has anyone started a new thread? If so, link it for me and if not here it is!

@Laur89 @Ellsbells112 @Robbo93 @Lauren3118 @Anny27 @Gems7 @Happymumma29 not sure if I missed anyone!

Morning girls :) cd3 so period starting to lighten up now!

@Gems7 have you tested again now AF date has gone?? And still no symptoms?

@Missgoldilocks any symptoms or indication that AF ir arrivinf? :(

@anny27 well at 8dpo had my usual cramps, yesterday was 10dpo and had bad cramps in the night, was super hot had to turn the fan on! But that can be pms too, and other than that no symptoms or anything so it could go either way. This journey is a very sad one honestly. How are you feeling? Xx

@Annny27 yes keep testing, AF officially 2 days late now, got a positive on clearblue weeks yesterday (2-3) and also a cheap test,
but other than occasional mild cramps/twinges I still don't have any symptoms.. maybe I should just count myself lucky! Still panicking I will have a chemical or MC though but we shall see. Wish I could be excited and enjoy it rather than worrying. xx

I think my light possible implantation bleeding has turned into an early period as it's got heavier now!!

Not to worry - just need to try all over again ☺️!!

To be honest it's not the worst news for me this month as now I can go ahead with my antibiotics for my skin this month and start again next month 🤞🏻🤞🏻 xx

The feeling hot and cramps does sound promissing! @Missgoldilocks whens AF due?

@Gems7 thats a relief to get that on the digital :D yep the joy of the first trimester definitley has been taken away for me now when we do finally get our bfp!

@Lynne425 awh sorry lovely :(

Omg @Gems7 congrats! This is amazing news! How are you feeling? Did you do anything different this month?

Sorry have been MIA, have an exam coming up next week. AF came for me, was a weird month after suspected CP but AF feels like she's back in normal cycle now so will be DTD again from Tuesday for month number 3.

@anny27 I don't think so. I feel like af is gone come, yes on Sunday.
I had a cry this morning then picked myself up. Booked a holiday to Italy for me and my OH for the first weekend in October (fertile weekend lol) it's something for me to look forward to and to lose some more weight for. I need to start thinking like I may not get pregnant but in January we will seek help instead of this emotional roller-coaster every month. So if it happens before January amazing and if it doesn't we can get treatment to start things up. Let's just hope I carry on thinking like this lol
How are you feeling? Whens fertile week?

@Gems7 how are you? I xx

@msunflower Thankyou hun 😚 we just DTD more than normal this time (twice a day CD 12-16) but I'm not really sure that was the reason for it to be honest because we didn't do that back in March when I got my last BFP, we must have just got the timing right and been extremely lucky.
Good luck for your exam and good luck for this next cycle
I feel okay girls, just the same, don't feel pregnant at all, but I have had the odd cramp and bloating episode! Will be a loooooooong first trimester, honestly the anxiety is taking over though it's horrible 😔

@Missgoldilocks I really want my OH to take me to Italy!! Italian food is the best! 😋
@Annny27 Has AF finished now? Keeping my fingers crossed for lucky cycle 9!! 🤞🏻🍀

Xxx

@Gems7 thank you and good luck with the first trimester, I hope you continue to feel well and that everything goes smoothly! So chuffed for you, and thank you for all of your encouragement on this thread ☺️

@msunflower awww it's okay, the girls on this thread have helped me out so much over the last 12 months, it's nice to have a place to go and talk about all the crazy things you can't talk to anybody else about. We all understand what each other is feeling on here it's nice to have people to talk to 😊 x

@Gems7 Italian food is defo the best! And we are going to Bologna I probably told you I went last year too and it's where my dad's from but it is theeeee place to eat in Italy for pasta and bolognase (obviously) super amazing I know he's gonna love it since he hasn't been! I want to get a train down to Florence too why not.
Glad you're okay, I know easier said than done but try not to be anxious xx

I'm having a chemical pregnancy, my frer was fainter this morning than the beginning of the week and I have started spotting. I am absolutley devestated, I just can't catch a fucking break 😞 xx

Bottom two are from this afternoon.

@Gems7 omg lovely :( cna you test again in the morning just to make sure ita not diluted wee?

With you every step of the way if it is a chemical :( 💗💗💗

oh i just read that you have started spotting. I am devastated for you its soo sooo cruel:(

@Gems7 😩😣whatttt no are you serious 😔 I am so so sorry hunnie 😭🤗💖that's just awful xxxxxx I have no words ☹️

@Gems7 you were the first person I thought of this morning, how are you doing lovely? Xxx

So soo cruel its just heartbreaking :(

Thanks girls, not gonna lie I'm not doing great right now. FRER was negative this morning, so just waiting for AF from hell to arrive 4 days late. My face is actually hurting I've cried that much, I'm just devestated. My sister is in labour right now too so my emotions are all over the place. I feel so guilty and awful for my OH, he has no children and my stupid broken body keeps losing them 😔 I don't know what to do, my mental health is taking a bashing these last few months that's for sure.
Sorry to be so miserable, I know you girls are having it tough too, it's just shit all round isn't it!! Xxx

Its totally normal to feel absolutely shit. Your body is not failing you atall, its not your fault 💗 its so hard after experiencing the joy of a bfp and then the pain of having it taken away! My heart goes out to you 💗 sending you all the love

After the miscarriage its probably worth seeing your GP to record this as they may be able to do some recurrent miscarriage tests just to get things properly checked xx

This is our first month trying to conceive. My period was supposed to start today (23rd August) but on Wednesday 19th I had some dark brown spotting when I wiped. Early hours of Thursday I had what I think may have been my period, wasn’t very heavy but wasn’t light either, looked like it was mixed and a bit watery too. Friday I stopped bleeding around 11, changed my pad then and nothing else. Could I have just had a really short period or could this have been A heavier implantation bleeding? Think I’m clutching at straws and hoping for something that’s not there.

@Canni19 I'm not being funny but make your own thread for that question. If you had cared to look at the thread you would see how quite insensitive you are being. Thanks

@Gems7 😩 I can't even imagine what you're going through right now. We are here if you need to vent at any point just write what you need to! Crying is good you need to get it out 🤗 just be so gentle with yourself please, you aren't broken and you WILL get pregnant and stay pregnant, you will! I agree to try gp to see if they can help you but for now just do what you need to do to feel better and look after yourself ❤️❤️🌹🌹

Afs here for me so onto the next cycle

Babe 😭 @Missgoldilocks its tragiclkterally every month heartbreak!!!!

Thankyou for your support girls it honestly means a lot ❤️ I'm going to cal my GP tomorrow.

@Missgoldilocks I'm sorry about AF , we're both in the same boat, she's here for me too. Just putting some cucumber on my puffy eyes then I'm getting dressed and dragging my miserable arse out of the house for some lunch. And I may just going dive head first into the biggest glass of Prosecco whilst I'm at it.

Big hugs girls xx