Anyone starting the TWW #2

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Hey ladies, has anyone started a new thread? If so, link it for me and if not here it is!

@Laur89 @Ellsbells112 @Robbo93 @Lauren3118 @Anny27 @Gems7 @Happymumma29 not sure if I missed anyone!

@Missgoldilocks Thanks girl, I wish you could too. I didn't think about things like this before, you don't do you, just imagined that once I got that second pink line everything would be perfect!!.
I argued with OH also the other day so can relate to you on that one. Think I'm snappy in general atm, we didn't speak all day and he slept downstairs. It's certainly testing TTC
Don't write yourself off this month though, you really never know! They say it happens when you least expect it. I hope that's true for you, you deserve it so much after all your perseverance and positivity.
I'll update you all tomorrow after the scan. It's at 11 xx

@Gems7 will be thinking of you tomorrow 💗💗 let us know, I really hope its positive news xxx

@Missgoldilocks I think its just pre AF spotting. Just had tests delivered and did one at 12dpo and Bfn so guess thats me out! Every month is gutting!!!

@anny27 it really is isn't it? Its so hard to feel positive I'm constantly being negative about it all now 🙄

@Gems7 thank you ❤️ I don't feel positive I've probably chewed you lots ears off lol but I hope we both get some good news xxx

@Gems7 wishing you all the luck ❤️🤗🤗🤗

@Missgoldilocks Thankyou 😘 xx

Keeping all our fingers crossed for you @gems7 💗💗💗

@Gems7 wishing you all the best today my lovely xx

Good luck today @Gems7 - thinking of you! Really hope it's good news ❤️

Been thinking of you all day @gems7 xxx

Ladies - I took the plunge and called the GP as we are approaching 1 year ttc. She said we have to wait 2 years??? I was shocked. Perhaps its because we have conceived in that time so we obviously ovulate and his sperms can meet the egg. But frustrating:(

Hi girls
Soooooo

Okay so...
Had my scan this morning, the sonographer was lovely. He spent time clicking away then asked the assistant to pass him his glasses and then asked her to go and get another sonographer. He told me he thought he could see a flicker. The other sonographer came in and she could see the flicker too, then they showed me. I broke down and started sobbing because I was shocked. They measured it at 4mm which would indicate 6 weeks pregnant.
They have arranged another scan for me for next Tuesday, reason being the lady who scanned me last week put in her report that there was a foetal pole with no heartbeat measuring 4mm. And my scan today measured the same which shows there has been no growth. The man today said it is very very unusual to see a foetal pole with no heartbeat so wonders if the sonographer last week actually saw the foetal pole or just thought she did.. there’s no way of knowing. The patch of bleeding is clear next to the sac but he said that it is “insignificant”
So even though it would have been more reassuring if they said “that’s the strongest heartbeat we have ever seen” I am still taking it as a positive because two people confirmed they saw one. I literally can't believe it, I'm in shock!!
What a bloody rollercoaster!

@Annny27 what an absolute load of shit!!!! 2 years!? No way! That can't be right! How frustrating. When my OH's GP told him to go back after we had been trying 1 year I was fuming because we are both older. But 2 years... you must feel so disappointed
I don't know what your situation is but is few people I know have had initial tests etc privately for about £200. They do bloods and check your tubes etc. or maybe if you spoke to somebody else on a different day at the gp surgery you may get a different answer...

Xxx

@Gems7 omg that's amazing news!!!!! So so so happy for you!!! I knew it would be good news ❤️❤️❤️ yayyy haha I bet you're over the moon! Maybe the first one got the date wrong or something xx

@anny27 that's really shit 😔 how long have you been trying including before miscarriage? Hopefully you will fall quickly x

@Gems7 ahhhh amazing news 😍😍😍 hopefully little one is bigger and stronger next week 🤞🤞🤞🤞 wow what a week you have had xxx

@missgoldilocks we stopped using condoms end of may 2019 so officially 11 months! @gems7 think I am gonna ask to be out on my hubbies works private health care and then we can go and get some tests done. The NHS seems really inconsistent with when they offer tests to people!

@anny27 yeah we came off contraception in April last year too but obviously luckily my doctor listened to me just gotta wait out this quarantine! Definitely get tests done privately if you can x

Well AF arrived a few days early so onto the next cycle!

@anny27 I'm sorry girl 😔🤗

Thankyou, I still can't believe it ❤️

@Annny27 stupid AF!! 😣 defo look into private for prices etc. it's really unfair how much inconsistency there is between different nhs trusts. It should be the same no matter where you are or who your GP is!! Xx

@Gems7 ah yay that sounds more positive, fingers crossed all is okay next week xx

where are you in your cycle @PrettyTulip?

And @Missgoldilocks any indication of AF or BFP?

I am cd3 so will start dtd in a few days!

@Annny27 no idea, I've stopped tracking atm due to the infections and spotting.
I'm waiting for another 'normal' period and then I'll start tracking again xx

@anny27 hi how are you? Af will be here on the weekend for me, cramps started last night and my cervix is low and hard as per fucking usual. I can't stand the fact I have this stupid glimmer of bloody hope still that MAYBE my period won't fucking come but who the fuck am I bloody kidding! 🤬🤬🤬 I'm so fucking sick of this shit and the fact that I'm angry now but I'm going to be even more angry and upset when af actually comes! Urghhhhh I need to punch a punching bag ffs. I can't believe this every single month its bloody heart break 😩

Thats sensible @PrettyTulip hope things return to normal!

@missgoldilocks awh lovely :( I feel the same. Even if my temp drops on 13dpo and I am spotting I still have a stupid glimmer of hope!!!!! Wish I could just be relaxed 😪😪😪

@anny27 it's crap 😢 now I have hope because I had cramps at 10dpo, no proper cramps since, dtd last night then this morning 12dpo the tiniest spot of blood and nothing since. I'm due on Sunday and now I'm wracking the Internet like am I pregnant? Stupid really. How are you doing?

@Gems7 @Laur89how are you two x

@PrettyTulip I dunno if I told you but dong quai can make your period come x

@Missgoldilocks anything is possible! Will you wait until Sunday to test?

@anny27 probably yeah seeing a bfn will be worse I think

@Missgoldilocks yes I think you did mention that him but think I'm on my period now. H have been bleeding (more spotting) for the last two weeks n but I'm guessing the antibiotics kinda pauses or slowed it down x