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9dpo anybody want to join on tww?

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Mummy2Babba · 23/10/2019 05:21

9dpo today , been having ligament cramps in pelvic area and top of my thighs and some left ovary pain since around 5/6dpo.

Only managed to dtd on day of peak fertility on CBDT 🥴🥴.. really hope it will be enough this month ! I also think I ovulated that night after my peak and after dtd .
Anybody on the tww also and want to join me in my misery 😰💖💖 baby dust to all X

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mellymoo86 · 27/10/2019 20:14

@Mummy2Babba I'm not sure to be honest...feel like it was maybe to much (looks like you're supposed to get only a tiny bleed) but I didn't bleed as such, it was more brown. My gut instinct is that I'm just going to start my period soon. I'll wait a few more days and see how things go. I've already given up though lol

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Mummy2Babba · 27/10/2019 20:24

@Carol9ine of course you can welcome! Sounds like you covered all bases as it only takes 1 🙌🏽! Baby dust to you and yes fingers crossed we all have a bun in the overn V soon!

@xoJellyBean try not torture yourself have you had anymore bleeding?

@mellymoo86 it’s awful isn’t it Mother Nature sure knows how to confuse the life out of us all , I hope it is IB for you but try not stress too much! Are you late? X

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Lizziedu49 · 27/10/2019 20:37

@Mummy2Babba I had symptoms but they've all disappeared so now I feel crazy 😂 have you had any symptoms?

Although we are TTC I don't tell my husband any of this as he would definitely not understand the stipulation and stress I am causing myself haha. As far as he is concerned we haven't managed this month and I will let him know when we should DTD again haha

I am so glad I have you ladies to talk to!!!!!

mellymoo86 · 27/10/2019 20:43

@Lizziedu49 I'm exactly the same! He will definitely think I'm crazy if I tell him everything I've been doing. I told him today don't think there's a baby this month and he said ok, don't worry. End of conversation lol.

@Mummy2Babba not late hun, I should be starting in 2/3 days times

xoJellyBean · 27/10/2019 20:44

@Mummy2Babba I've had a little bit more & some more cramps. Think I'll just assume it's my period & if my symptoms continue then I'll test again! My nipples are soo sore this evening though 🤦🏼‍♀️

xoJellyBean · 27/10/2019 20:46

@Lizziedu49 I'm the same with my hubby haha he doesn't know the real number of tests I took lolGrin although when I told him this morning my period was here he was gutted and admitted he told his best mate he might be a dad soon! That made it worse lol

mellymoo86 · 27/10/2019 20:51

@Lizziedu49 I've been emptying the bin out before he sees how many tests I've done lol. Kept getting parcels from Amazon as well lol, his like what's that? Nooothing!

Aww don't worry hun it'll happen soon. How long have you been trying?

mellymoo86 · 27/10/2019 20:52

@xoJellyBean Aww don't worry hun it'll happen soon. How long have you been trying?

xoJellyBean · 27/10/2019 21:05

@mellymoo86 awk can't really complain it's only been month 1! You?

mellymoo86 · 27/10/2019 21:08

@xoJellyBean yeah same, month 1. I know it's something like 20% chance but was optimistic. We got married just 3-4 weeks ago so was hoping for a honeymoon baby

xoJellyBean · 27/10/2019 21:23

@mellymoo86 aww congrats!! Fair play to yous, we are married 2 years and I only feel ready now lol

mellymoo86 · 27/10/2019 21:29

@xoJellyBean aww, how old are you? I'm 33, no time to waste! Lol. I'm hoping me being on the pill for so long doesn't affect me. I came off it a year ago and I've had 28 day cycles every month so should be alright hopefully.

xoJellyBean · 27/10/2019 22:00

@mellymoo86 I'm 26! I was on the pill too, apparently it doesn't affect you but I'm sceptical cause my cousin only had to dtd for her wee son & she told me last month she wanted another one & told me yesterday she's pregnant after dtd once in her fertile window, she's never been on the pill. Everyone around me is pregnant atm lol

mellymoo86 · 27/10/2019 22:15

@xoJellyBean I know the feeling. My best friend has never used the pill and now she's on her 3rd baby. She literally gets pregnant in the first go. I guess some girls are just more fertile. I'm just noticing pregnant ladies and kids everywhere now. And I have this little sad feeling that comes over me when I do. It's only one month so I feel stupid for saying that but can't help it

Lizziedu49 · 28/10/2019 06:36

@xoJellyBean we are the same age and month of TTC 🙂 always your husbands response is a little bit heart wrenching

@mellymoo86 hahahahaha I do the bin and amazon thing too! How do you manage to POAS in the morning without him noticing though??

Still no AF and CD37 for me 😱 my longest ever was 38 so I guess I'll see this week!

I'm also seeing pregnant women and babies everywhere at the moment 😩

One of my husbands young members of staff got his girlfriend pregnant 5 months ago, because he "didn't pull out one time" I'm just like ffs they didn't even TRY and they got pregnant 😭 so depressing

mellymoo86 · 28/10/2019 08:04

@xoJellyBean I pee in a cup, dip the stick and do my thing whilst that's working. Then I throw it away and run fast with the bin! Lol no it's not that bad. I've been keeping a ttc book so been tracking my ovulation and dpo sticks on it. I've stopped the dpo bit now as it's depressing so I'll start again from my next cycle.

My best friend husband did exactly the same! He actually pulled out on time but it must have still got in there and bang she's pregnant and there's me doing head stands after every time lol.

I'm cycle day 27 now. Should be starting my period tomorrow. Although seems like I've already started spotting.

mellymoo86 · 28/10/2019 08:19

@xoJellyBean so it appears I was counting my DPO wrong. So today I am 12 DPO not 13.

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Mummy2Babba · 28/10/2019 09:41

I am out this month ladies 😌😌 soo disheartened but on to next month I guess! Good luck to yous all and keep me updated on how things go for everyone!
Hope to catch up with you again in a few days for more obsessing 🙌🏽 Xxx

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Skygirl1983 · 28/10/2019 09:56

I think I'm out too. Light brown spotting and negative tests. Knackered and pmt'd to the max! Here's to next month ladies x

mellymoo86 · 28/10/2019 10:20

@Mummy2Babba @Skygirl1983 I'm out too! Sounds like we are all in sync with cycles so looking forward to the next! We need to start a WhatsApp group or something lol. It's nice to have you all to talk too. It's been keeping me positive Smile

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Mummy2Babba · 28/10/2019 10:27

It has been so lovely and it actually makes me feel not so depressed and lonely on this awful 2WW Carry on! We should just continue this thread incase we loose each other on another one !
Sorry to hear it ladies , only another few days until we can get the OPK’s out again. Bloody fortune it’s like paying an extra direct debit each month, hope it is worth it eventually! Xxx

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Skygirl1983 · 28/10/2019 10:38

I have created a new thread called End of November testing, jump on board. See you in there xx

xoJellyBean · 28/10/2019 11:54

Oh my word we're all so synced I love it!! How can we stay in touch xx

Skygirl1983 · 28/10/2019 12:09

@xoJellyBean join us on the new thread link above.

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