I need some help. TTC recurrent miscarriage

[YoureAQuizardHarry]

Hi can I get some advice? So we dtd last Friday about 3 days after I ovulated as DH was away. Just fancies it, not trying anymore as we've just had our 9th miscarriage. However later that day my period came and it was horrible. But it stopped and then I had just pink on wiping.

Since then I've started feeling really really sick this weekend, sore (ish) boobs, loose stools (sorry), dizziness and exhaustion. Now it could be a bug with all the symptoms but I dont know!!

When should I test if I do? My cycle is really short. It's about 24 days bang on

I'm now shitting myself I'm pregnant and so scared. Even though we obviously had unprotected sex, I'm just worried it's going to end exactly the same way and this is going to lead to miscarriage number 10

When should I test? Or should I just put it down to a bug?

Hugs. Sorry to hear about your miscarriages. If you dtd 3dpo then I'd say it is unlikely you are pregnant unless you dtd in the fertile window before? Normally you should test on your AF due date

@Whyhaveidonethis I really never thought I'd say this but I hope to god I'm not pregnant. I need to lose weight and not be high risk, and I just can't do another miscarriage again. I'm exhausted I might just go to bed. I did a test and it's negative but I'll wait another week and do another one to be sure

@YoureAQuizardHarry have you had any private tests? Xx

@sistaaa yes it's a genetic thing. We need to screen it out

@sistaaa yes it's a genetic thing. We need to screen it out and have ivf