10 DPO, whoes with me?

[jadelouiselaird]

Hey everyone anyone else at 10dpo

Do you have any symptoms and when will you test?

Baby dust

@mrssunshinexxx do not feel silly at all, my lovely. We all do it. I've looked at mine and I swear I still have no idea what I'm doing. It's such a good thing to care and want this, it shows just how good of a mother you are/will be! So hold on to that and never beat yourself up for feeling positive or wanting it 💙 stay with us as OH not always there, we'll suppose you and can stop you obsessing if you're worried about that! We're all in this together! Definitely take it easy today, and no need to look ahead just yet. Also sucks that the first day of AF for a lot of women is crappy as you are feeling gross, in pain, hormonal, and emotional. So just a slap in the face for us really isn't it 🙃🙄 xx

@mrssunshinexxx oh no sorry to hear that 😞 it's devastating and so frustrating

Thanks everyone I will defo hand around and hoping to see some of you get some good news !! Got a week off work coming up together so looking forward to that xxx

@mrssunshinexxx that's the spirit, you've still got chance and if you ask me - that week off together is such a good sign. Is it around od?? If not, you never know it could still being good fortune 💫 nothing like a bit of quality time together. And like you said before, it's hard to get the timing right when he is away so don't beat yourself up, you'll get there! 💙

@jadelouiselaird how are you today chick?

@Gigi318 still no sign of AF, ive been taking seven seas trying for a baby vitamins and apparently it can delay periods and mess up your cycle so it could be that

Got some tests ordered should be here today/tommorow so going to do another test at some point this week if AF doesnt turn up by then

@jadelouiselaird yes absolutely, I've heard lots of people saying that. I've always taken multivits so I'm sticking to those, with an added folic acid as of yesterday! Good idea, which ones did you go for?

@Gigi318 i got some first response

Ive stopped taking them now and going to get some regular folic acid ones

@Gigi318 no not near fertile week but ovulation will be a Sunday if same as last 2 months so we can get busy fri night sat and Sunday all being well
Just so looking forward to having him home for a week x

@mrssunshinexxx that all works out perfectly. Yes, you can enjoy some quality time together and I'm sure that will help you to relax and feel positive too, lovely. It sounds fantastic. My OH is sometimes away and I get so needy when he goes, you're doing so well!

@Gigi318 can't explain how difficult t it ive got 5 more sleeps to do ! He's been away 10 days :(

@mrssunshinexxx I can only imagine. But after tonight you're half way through! Or, if you mean he has been gone 10 days already then you are on the home straight! Hurrah!!! So is he back Sunday? A gorgeous roast to celebrate 🥂

Yes he's been gone 10 already 5 to go definitely sounds a good idea 😍@Gigi318 keep me updated with your journey xx

@mrssunshinexxx will do my lovely. Keep your fingers crossed for me, and that I'm not going mad 🙈😘

@mrssunshinexxx Oh honey I am so sorry the awful Af has come :( Sounds like you have something to look forward too with your OH coming home in 5 days and you get some quality time together soon. Like Gigi said it may relax you and stay positive. It is such an emotional roller coaster this trying to conceive - a few years ago I just went about my normal life and now I live it around cycles and DPO's! Its crazy stuff!! I have pretty much ruled myself out this month although when AF does come I will still be really disappointed. I'm just trying to concentrate on next month, make it fun and go into the next cycle with positive thoughts. I think though after next month i might try the 'delete the apps' and throw out the OPK's and see what happens. It's too draining on me and it takes over my days sometimes ...... but I will give it one more month of obsessing then I think I will take a step back. I have total faith though that your month is coming my lovely xx

@Gigi318 how are you feeling? Have you still got symptoms? Only a few more days to wait :) xx

@Carolba that's the spirit babe. This is meant to be beautiful and fun and it's so easy for us to get stressed out about it all, isn't it. Glad you're feeling positive right now, relaxing always helps and you get into a good place in your mind. And then, you usually find that things all fall into place 🤞🏻

I'm feeling good today, thank goodness 🙌🏻 still cramping a little but its all very mild so highly doubt anything to do with AF. I never cramp before, just on the day and she's due Sunday! So 🤞🏻💫

@Gigi318 aww it all sounds promising for you ... fingers crossed :) I would so love for you to get a BFP :) .... and yes relaxing certainly helps :)

@Carolba I am getting quite nervous the closer I get. I feel like I know my body, but at the same time frightened that I'm looking into things too much. Arghh, driving myself mad! I hope you're feeling good this evening? 💫

@Gigi318 Understandable hun, trust in your body though. Its easy to look too hard into stuff but enjoy it because if this is your month you will want to remember every twinge eeeekkkk - its easy to go slowly insane though, every day just draaaggggggs haha. Wish I had been strong enough not to test early so if AF comes i am 100% not going to test early - even if i get symptoms lol .... you have been an inspiration in self control! - I feel strangely relaxed and calm this evening, i think my emotions have plateaued and what will be will be :) AF due tomorrow!

@Carolba I'm hoping so. I am enjoying the process and just trying my hardest not to obsess or look into everything but it's difficult, isn't it. Oh that's amazing news! Honestly I am just too scared to test early. I like to do things by the book and seeing early tests with BFN is horrible, so it's keeping me going. Plus, like I said I'm a bit terrified of the answer so happy to wait 🤣 I'm so pleased that you're relaxed, remember to enjoy it all and what will be will be 🙌🏻👏🏻 woohoo!

Thanks for the kind words@Carolba I feel better since hiding notifications on here haven't checked for hours usually I'd be on every 15 mins ! X

Hiya ladies, sorry for gatecrashing, but im at the same stage as some of you!
First month off pill, and not "trying" as such... But I've had so many symptoms its hard to ignore.
Wishful thinking I know, probably just my body regulating to being without the pill, but a girl can dream.

AF would be due on sunday by 'pill calculations'... so who knows 🙈
I have a FRER standing by when I get the courage...!

@mrssunshinexxx that's the way to do it. I don't have notifications either, but I do check it all day inbetween tasks and when I have free time 🙈 but good to check in with us when you feel like you want to, so it's not ruling anything for you!

@Dullblue hello and welcome! Ohh that's exciting. So this is essentially cycle 1 for you then? Me too! What symptoms have you noticed?

3 days late and BFN, done with a asda test. FR have arrived so will try with one of them may leave it till friday though

@jadelouiselaird all sounding very good so far 🙊🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 yes good idea to hold off a bit if you can. Any signs of AF yet or just feel normal?

Been having cramps, headaches, Increased CM, moody. Feels like its on its way but nothing so far