10 DPO, whoes with me?

[jadelouiselaird]

Hey everyone anyone else at 10dpo

Do you have any symptoms and when will you test?

Baby dust

@Ellsbells112 it's crazy, that's what I was like yesterday. Felt absolutely fine! But was relieved after how poorly I was on Saturday. And today, full on nausea again. Quite bad. But not sick. So that's something! I'm either going mad or... 🤞🏻💫

@Gigi318 😂😂 you're giving me a lot of hope I'm like following in your footsteps hahaha...fingers crossed xx

@Ellsbells112 it really feels like you are though!!! Crazy!!! I feel as if I am, but don't want to get my hopes up or feel a fool 🙈 such a fine line!!! X

@Ellsbells112 @Gigi318 aww thanks ladies I hope it all means something and this month is my month I just think wrapping up a baby grow and writing a note saying ' can I share your birthday' would be soooo cute but I am getting ahead of my self one more day and we will know ! X

@mrssunshinexxx that really is the sweetest. Not much longer to wait and I really hope it works out for you. If this month is your month, it would really be fantastic!

I hope it's all of ours we deserve to be mummies @Gigi318 xx

Still no sign of AF for me, 1 day late

Tested this morning and got BFN

I have lots of EWCM though today which strange, not a clue whats going on!

@jadelouiselaird well that still sounds very hopeful!! I've got my fingers crossed for you and all the other ladies waiting on a lovely BFPPPPPPP hehe xxxx

@jadelouiselaird what test did you use ? Are you usually late x

@mrssunshinexxx i used a cheap easy@home test

Im not usually late, but i come of the implant end of July i have had a period since though and had them when on the implant and always been regular

@jadelouiselaird I would get a more expensive one for in the morning if you can it all depends on how much hcg you have x
If I don't come on in the morning I'm going to get a first response x

Yes im going to get another test, ive none at all. Might leave it a few days and give it a bit more chance.

@mrssunshinexxx we absolutely do, oohh that made me smile! It's so exciting isn't it 🤞🏻💫

@jadelouiselaird was just coming on to check in with you and now this sounds so promising!!! You could still be pregnant - you may not get your BFP for a few more days or a week! A few more days with a FR if no AF sounds so good!!! I'm so excited for you. It sounds so promising!!!

Hi Ladies
Sorry I have been AWOL this weekend - I got a BFN yesterday and then had to go spread my Step Fathers ashes. It was a very emotional day and I just feel drained. Was really hoping for a BFP :( AF is due Wed/Thurs but ALL of my symptoms have gone - definitely think that I am out this month.

How is everyone feeling?

Are you testing tomorrow @mrssunshinexxx? I have my fingers crossed for you!

And @Gigi318 do you think you can wait out until Saturday? I really wish I had of done. Feel really down today :( All those positive signs I really let my imagination run away with me there for a bit x

Hi @Carolba so sorry to hear you have had such a hard couple of days wait and see you just never know some people have very different levels of hcg and don't pick up on a pregnancy test as early as others

I'll be testing wed morning I think if af doesn't come before midday tomorrow I might just start to think there's a chance x

@Carolba hello lovely, glad you've checked in. Sorry to hear about your BFN on such an emotional day. How are you feeling today? Remember, you're not out until AF is here! Please don't feel down. Maybe try to distract yourself this evening? Watch a film or cook something nice - be kind to yourself my lovely, it'll help I promise. And you're still in the game right now, remember that!

I can absolutely wait until Saturday. I'm not even tempted to test before because I don't want to see a BPN if its not accurate 🙈 that's what keeps me strong. Also, I kind of like having something to look forward to - I must sound so bizarre 🙊🤣 Feeling queasy today and had a bit of a headache but taken some paracetamol and it's gone. Hurrah! We're here for you, try not to feel down just yet. You're still in the game my girl 💫

@mrssunshinexxx that's the spirit 🥂🥂🥂

Thank you lovely ladies :) It's amazing to get such nice and positive messages from people I don't even know! It's such a outlet to be able to talk to people who are going through the same thing as me :)

@mrssunshinexxx I am still trying to stay positive, read loads of sites where people didn't get their BFP until 15/16 DPO, but the sudden lack of symptoms make me feel like maybe this is not the month. Awww I have all my fingers and toes crossed that she doesn't appear tomorrow - or the next 9 months!! I am so excited for you :)

@Gigi318 I still feel a little down today - but some nice food, a good film and a restful nights sleep I am sure I will feel back to normal tomorrow :) ..... I am so proud that you are holding out until Saturday ... I am so sure that you will be rewarded :) :) Still feeling queasy is a good sign!

So even though I am not totally out of the game for this month, I have one eye on the strategy for next month .... number 1 is definitely NO testing early! Others will will include, CB digital ovulation tests (instead of the cheaper ones), cod liver oil, grapefruit juice, Pre seed (anyone used this?) De - caff all the way, lots of relaxing, baths and candles ....... oh and plenty BD lol ............but before all of that if AF shows her ugly face I am going to pour myself the biggest glass of wine :) ....... but hopefully non of that will be needed x

@jadelouiselaird Got my hand up in the air, did someone say 10 dpo!!!!

10 dpo today, failed IVF in April with nothing to freeze! First time I've had crazy symptoms in a normal cycle.

2-4 dpo felt like i was coming down with the flu
4-10 dpo backache
8-9 dpo pains in my lower abdomen on the left side, almost painful
5-10 dpo constantly tired

Tested using Amazon cheapy and I see a very feint line so tested again this evening and see another line. Then I read the reviews and they said these give a false positive but I got them as it said they supply the same ones to the NHS!!!

Lu x

@Carolba I absolutely agree, I'm so pleased with the community here - you're all such lovely ladies! And that's the spirit - take it easy tonight and you may find that you wake up feeling refreshed and more positive! Yay to your plan. And just remember to relax and enjoy it too - always the best way. You've got this 💫

@Lucindaa sorry to hear about that in April, but this all sounds fantastic for you this month. Keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏻 I also have similar symptoms to you so hope that means something for me too 🙊

I'm out af has come so so so gutted this is so much harder mentally than I was prepared for xx

@mrssunshinexxx oh my love, I'm sorry to hear that. I can only imagine. It's so tough wondering and hoping, isn't it. Try not to let it break you, you CAN and you WILL make this work. Your perfect little baby is on its way, and will get sticky soon. Focus on this next month if you can. It's just 30 days or so, and it could be for you. If you choose to stick around with us here, we'll support you. Just try to relax as much as you can and go with it 💫 we're here for you!

@mrssunshinexxx awww lovely lady please dont be down I know how horrible the feeling is!! We are here for you ❤🤗 sending lots of love and hugs your way!!! Easier said than done but try and stay positive for next month! Xxx

Thanks ladies I appreciate the support @Ellsbells112 @Gigi318 I can't think past today at the moment it's so hard with hubby working offshore
I'm going for bloods doing in the morning then I have to go again o cycle day 19 or 20 but it falls on a weekend so god knows.
Feel so stupid for looking at due date stuff and shit like that just sick of it all xx

@mrssunshinexxx ofcourse you cant look past today I'd be exactly the same! Just give yourself time, do some things that make you feel good, a facial or whatever it may be! Look after yourself in this time hun xxxx