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OH troubles - please help!

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tryingforbabyone · 31/08/2019 08:50

My OH and I are now on cycle 6 on ttc. I'm on cd13 and we have started SMEP this month however last month OH said to me that he wasn't sure if he was ejaculating. He said it feels like he is because he climaxes and most of the time I can feel him throb (TMI sorry) but he said it feels different like it's really sensitive so he can't tell if he has.
I think I can remember that usually after DTD I would have a lot of stuff drip out of me during the day after, I guessing it's a mixture of all the fluids (TMI again sorry!) but I've noticed this seems to be less. It might just be that now I'm looking for it so I'm worrying myself but I'm beginning to get concerned that we won't be able to conceive if he's not ejaculating but we can't tell. When he pleasures himself he does so we know he can and he's never had trouble before so I guess it may be psychological. But how do we know if he is ejaculating?
We've spoken about it lots and said that next month we are going to get rid of apps and ovulation tests and just try and be abit more relaxed about it but that's easier said than done when we are both desperate for a baby!
Has anyone else had anything similar? Or any advise?

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CrazyFooLady · 31/08/2019 10:07

Hi, not sure if this will help or not.... but it's definitely TMI.
I notice at certain times of the month that after my OH ejaculates it will just come straight out and other times, it's like my vagina turns into a vortex and it disappears never to return (the cum that is, not my vagina lol)
We have actually named that time as the 'Vagina vortex' days 😂😂
I think the cervix is more open and certain times of the month such as when ur about to ovulate than others x

Hayley94 · 31/08/2019 10:25

Totally agree with @CrazyFooLady. Normally drips out of me and last night after a positive OPK it stayed put.. x

tryingforbabyone · 31/08/2019 15:29

@CrazyFooLady @Hayley94 so you think it is possible that he is still ejaculating but sometimes it's normal this it is just staying inside? I guess it's weird that it's feeling different for him which is what I was worried about. I'm hoping he is still ejaculating and there is a chance I will get pregnant!

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itwasalovelydreamwhileitlasted · 31/08/2019 15:31

Same here - peak fertility days I don't get any coming out.....freaked me out the first couple of times but when I realised it coincided with ovulation is figured it was a good thing!

Ginmonkey84 · 31/08/2019 15:43

Yep at the fertile stage it disappears. I found this out very quickly around my ovulation time. I used to think he hadn’t and he couldn’t understand it either lol If he’s climaxing I would be pretty sure there is ejaculate with it.

tryingforbabyone · 31/08/2019 17:36

@Ginmonkey84 okay great I hope so! Thank you for your help. I'm not ovulating yet but expecting it in the next couple of days so hoping that's why!

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Hayley94 · 31/08/2019 17:40

Yes, I actually had to check last night because nothing was dripping out 😅

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