Just give me a period or a positive

[River5675]

We have been trying for a few months now after I stopped the mini pill earlier in the year. I've had 3 or 4 periods...the last 2 being fairly on time.
This month I'm now on day 43 of my cycle, and no period yet! But also no positive tests....only BFNs
I know it's just a waiting game but how long have some of you had to wait before seeing a positive? I dont know if im still in false hope of getting a positive or if it should deffo have appeared by now

Also I feel really queasy the last few days 🤢 and stretching feelings in my lower abdomen. Not quite pre-period pains...it feel different.
Havent had sore nips though which I do get normally pre-period

Your periods still might be regulating. I'm currently Day 76 this cycle and losing the will. Have you been tracking ovulation?

I have been using an app and done the deed several times in the window, and also out of the window!
But havent used any ovulating strips etc to test

I would use LH strips to test as my app wasn't correct on when I was ovulating. I've been ttc for 18 months and been using lh strips for about 3 months now and just got my BFP!