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Missed miscarriage

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aquarius1994 · 24/08/2019 12:31

Soooo. My little boy is 18 months and before him I had a miscarriage which I know is very common for first pregnancies. I waited 2 months then tried again and along comes my little boy

We decided to try again 2 months ago to give him a sibling and I fell pregnant on my 2nd cycle. Everything was great and no sickness or anything apart from on one day but I never had any symptoms with other pregnancies. I was a bit more tired this time but prob as I have a toddler

Went for my standards 12 week scan on Tuesday just gone and baby was there but no heartbeat end they think they stopped growing at 9 weeks. I had D&C on Wednesday

We are gonna try again after 2 cycles but I'm gonna be so paranoid if I do fall preg Cos I had not symptoms of a miscarriage this time

Just looking for reassurance I get

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aquarius1994 · 24/08/2019 12:31

I guess not I get

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aquarius1994 · 24/08/2019 12:37

Ps the recent miscarriage that was picked up on this week, I'm age 35 so hoping she isn't a factor. I'm a tad overweight too at 5"2 and around 11 stone 9. But I was not too much lighter when I conceived and had my son before

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Irishgene · 24/08/2019 19:52

I didn't want to read and run, same thing happened to me in May. I didn't even know a missed miscarriage was a thing until it happened. Just sending my love and take time to look after yourself. We're TTC again, cycles a bit all over but think we're on TTC2. I'm 37 and a bit heavier than I should be 🙄 xx

TTC1993 · 24/08/2019 21:27

Hey 🙋🏾‍♀️

This also happened to me in June, i didn't even know what a missed miscarriage was until it happened, i went for 12 week scan and no heart beat, baby stopped growing at 7 weeks. I had no symptoms either, had the operation and now this is my first time TTC (1st cycle trying) as the pregnancy was unplanned before.

I totally understand your anxieties ❤️❤️

rosamundos · 24/08/2019 23:38

Hello OP, happened to me too in July and is horrid, I totally sympathise. We found out at 8 weeks something was wrong due to an early scan, and then rescanned at 10 when they confirmed it was all over. I then had it medically managed. I’m sorry you had to find out at your 12 week scan.

I think you just need to take a deep breath when it comes to trying again, likelihood is everything will be okay. I have my fingers crossed for you. We’ve started trying straight away as my little boy is almost 3 and I’m feeling very over the hill at 35!! I know that’s a bit mad! It also took us 7 months to even fall pregnant so I think we’re in for the long haul

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