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Too scared to test

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 13/08/2019 14:24

Omg I am actually freaking out, 7 days late and I am too scared to test! The thought of a BFN makes me well up everytime I even think about peeing on a stick! Anyone else in same boat?

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Each2TheirOwn · 13/08/2019 16:47

I'm not in the same boat but I say bite the bullet. There's only one way to find out for sure and although you are dreading a potential BFN, at least you'll know instead of constantly wondering.

Good luck, I hope it's a BFP!

Olivebranch26 · 13/08/2019 16:49

I'm sorry you feel that way, it's awful isn't it when you want to see bfp so bad! However I can't relate unfortunately I have zero will power and always end up poas. 7 days late wow I have my fingers crossed for you hopefully that is a good Sign. Is it common for you to be so late? P.s take a test Wink x

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 13/08/2019 17:45

I have just been through my tracking app and I have been this late before but only a handful of times over a year ago. I'm so scared I think I'm going to cry! I just want this so badly, we have been trying for bloody ages and although once I get a BFN, I will 'know', I wil then spend hours searching 'cd39 bfn but preg' 🤣 thanks got your responses guys, I have ordered some tests and will poas by weekend of still not started x

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Olivebranch26 · 13/08/2019 18:07

Ah we've all been there, it can consume you and by the sound of it you've been trying a while, it took 2 years to get my DD so I know that feeling all too well. I really hope you get your bfp soon, trust me as soon as you get it and your baba in your arms you will know that the wait and hard work was all worth it. It will definitely happen when the time is right 😊

Pip231018 · 13/08/2019 18:17

@Igotthemheavyboobs Hey, this happened to me last week. I was a week late and I decided to test and it was a BFN. I was surprised and then annoyed. Anyway, I went back to my day and later on I went back upstairs and I looked again (no idea why) and I could see a faint line. So I got my OH to buy some tests, they were rubbish and I couldn't see much. So 4 rubbish tests later, I could kind of see a line. I bought a FR which confirmed it, BFP. It was a real shock to me and after a MMC in May never thought it would happen. If it happened for me, could happen for you! Crossing everything for you!!!! X

Olivebranch26 · 13/08/2019 19:00

@Pip231018 congrats on the bfp Grin

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 13/08/2019 20:18

Pip231018 congratulations!! 😘

Thank you everyone, I have ordered some tests, delivery tomorrow. I am just going to wait until weekend and try to stop symptom spotting! Good luck everyone!

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alphabetti · 13/08/2019 21:32

I was recently afraid to test too. The later I got I was thinking if I don’t get a BFP then maybe there’s something wrong with me and that made me more anxious. Anyway at 2weeks late I tested with a cheap test bought from eBay seller and got very strong positive. I worried that might be false so did another and got another strong positive. I’m now 7+3.

Test when you feel ready but I really do hope you get a positive.

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 14/08/2019 07:17

Thank you alphabetti congratulations on your bfp!!!

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NavyBerry · 14/08/2019 08:18

Fingers crossed for you

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 14/08/2019 21:24

So I still haven't tested but, my nipples are more erm, erect, than usual. Normally they will go completely flat but havent for a few days now. Also shite sleep last night and some weird as dreams!

Waiting till Saturday to test. Good luck everyone x

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Pip231018 · 14/08/2019 21:40

The dreams are bonkers. My nipples tend to go darker and my lower back, ouch. Good luck. X

Olivebranch26 · 15/08/2019 06:33

Fingers crossed for you Smile

Olivebranch26 · 16/08/2019 21:09

Have you tested already? X

girlanonymous · 16/08/2019 21:30

Defo test just so it's not constantly on your mind. Hoping you get a BFP! Xxxx

Summerunderway · 16/08/2019 21:33

Good luck op.

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 16/08/2019 23:17

Testing tomorrow! Still no af, had some really light cramping yesturday and after I ate earlier today. Omg I'm so scared I'm going to make dp look at the result! Hahaha xxx

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 16/08/2019 23:18

Don't know where the xxx came from on that one! Thank you all for your kind words I will update you!

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wannabemummy123 · 16/08/2019 23:57

Looking forward to see your results !!! Good luck. Everything crossed for you!! I'm also testing tomorrow xx

Michellebops · 17/08/2019 05:12

I'm impressed at your willpower.

Good luck 🤞

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Igotthemheavyboobs · 17/08/2019 08:26

OK guys it's come back and I am pregnant!!!!

Thank you all for being with me these past few days! Good luck to all x

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VenusStarr · 17/08/2019 08:38

Congratulations @Igotthemheavyboobs!! 🎉 You have the patience of a Saint!

wannabemummy123 · 17/08/2019 08:39

Ah congratulations @Igotthemheavyboobs !!! I also tested this morning and got this ... not sure what to think right now xxx

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Yakadee · 17/08/2019 08:39

Congratulations! Worth the waiting xx

Each2TheirOwn · 17/08/2019 09:20

Congratulations @Igotthemheavyboobs 👌
@wannabemummy123 I see a faint line 🤞🏼