Did he fake it?

[girlanonymous]

I'm actually going to post this because it's been on my mind for over a week now.

BF and I are trying for a baby. Took the OPK on the 2nd which came back faintly positive so we DTD that night. On the 3rd is when I got a positive but he was working late so gave it a miss.

We DTD last night just because we were in the mood. AF not due till the 18th.

My issue is when we did it last night I felt his semen drip out of me after we finished (SORRY TMI I KNOW!) so I know he came inside and I asked him and he said yeah. However on the 2nd when we were trying I don't think he did. Nothing came out, so I think he faked it!

Regrettably I never asked him and I should have! However it's too late now to ask him.

My question is do you always feel it come out after a guy finishes in you??

He knows we're trying and that I want another baby.

Ok this is going to come out as TMI and to the point.......
My experience of this is, my vagina is like a vortex around ovulation time, it seems to suck the semen in, never to be returned.
However, after ovulation and when AF is about to show..... I do notice that the same thing happens to me too.
Hope this helps x

Do you not feel him ejaculate?

I notice sometimes more than others there is more liquid. Can't pinpoint it to whether it's fertile period or not as we dtd regularly throughout the month.

@CrazyFooLady

Thank you! That's actually very helpful. I'm gonna wait till next week to test. Don't feel positive this month.

@Michellebops

May sound crazy but I've never felt him ejaculate. He just tells me he is.

Don’t ask him. Men on the whole really don’t want to know the mechanics of TTC. They want to have sex without a condom and enjoy it.

Maybe it's just me!

My previous partner was quite small and he used to tell me when he was coming.

Current partner sometimes does but I can tell

My experience of this is, my vagina is like a vortex around ovulation time, it seems to suck the semen in, never to be returned.

Me too! So glad to see it written down

The amount of ejaculate varies due to a number of reasons so I wouldn't be concerned about how much I noticed afterwards

However you obviously have some trust issues if you think he lied to you about this, are you sure you want to have a baby with someone you don't trust?

Myvaginaisavortex would be a great username.

Forget user name Wilma it's a great name for anything! A book, a movie, a band!

@Omega369

The thing is I do trust him. Probably more than I ever have trusted someone else. I just thought it wouldn't take us this long to conceive, however I can also appreciate and acknowledge there are women on here who have tried longer than I have.

I'm so impatient I need to sort myself out!

Sometimes I can feel my partner cum sometimes I don't. Sometimes some comes out sometimes it doesn't. It does vary just like a woman's orgasm the intensity of it differs as does what is produced in terms of cum etc
If you trust him and he said he did then believe that you don't want to cause arguments at this stage of a relationship and when you are TTC

I thought this exact same thing but clearly it all got sucked up somewhere 😂 I though for sure he didn’t come but he clearly did as I got pregnant. Every other time of the month it ran out. But yes..... Fanny vortex 😂 exactly that