Can these two ever go together?
I'm 38 and my fiancé is 43. I have two children from my ex-husband (9 and 12), fiancé has no biological children. The kids live with us exactly half of the time.
We've jointly decided ttc. Our sex life is normally pretty good but since making the decision things have got a bit tricky. I'm happy to dtd frequently, but fiancé says that sex should be spontaneous rather than frequent or expected.
But I can't help looking at it from a logistical pov! I'm 39 in a couple of months so it's not like we have all the time in the world...
Any words of advice?