Feeling sad.

[Suzanne4989]

Feeling sad. Trying for a baby and it isn't working. The first time around i caught easy. It resulted in a miscarriage however I got pregnant 2 months later and she is now three.

I'm wondering if there is anything wrong. Breaks my heart when AF shows and then I have to tell me husband that I'm not pregnant. 😢😢

Will keep going ❤️

How long have you been trying OP?

If it's been a while, might be worth seeing your GP?

I know how you are feeling @Suzanne4989

First time I conceived first month of trying. This time have been going for over a year with two mc and no successful pregnancy to show for it. DD is so desperate for a sibling too.

I am dealing with it by not thinking about it too much. I do ovulation testing/track cycle to make sure we really go for it in the critical week but am also working on my career, enjoying hobbies etc so it doesn't become the be all and end all

For me secondary infertility was Worse than before I had DD (I also had mc at 12 weeks before her)

Since ttc sibling I've had 3 more mc and 2 near fatal ruptured ectopics so permanently infertile now

I still feel like I need to keep going though too and start Ivf again next month - feel so sad when I see posts about 2nd/3rd/4th Children and seeing sibling groups when I'm out and about is crushing xx

Thank you everyone for replying it means more than I can say. I've been off the pill for a year and we have been trying properly for 3 months, however before we weren't preventing anything from happening. So I guess a year when I sit and think about it.

I'm so sorry for your loses life can be so cruel ❤️❤️

I'm wondering if I'm too stressed to get pregnant as I lost my dad just before Christmas. He was diagnosed with cancer in the October and passed away just before Christmas.

Sending lots of love and well wishes

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OP, my first was quick and then second 18 months. I think sometimes it can just take that long, don’t loose heart!

@Suzanne4989 I would check you know your cycle well (just in case). I realised just before the first mc that I ovulate way later than I thought. Only realised when I started doing ov testing and the rest.

With our first baby we were fine with the have sex every other day thing but a bit more tired these days so it helps us to know when the 'critical' week is.

I do try not to think about it (as much as that is possible!) apart from in the run up to ov though.

Try not to think about TTC I mean!!