Nc. Totally fed up with work at the moment stressful, constantly bringing work home with me, just fed up with it all. My partner wants to wait to ttc (hasn't specified when he would like to) could do with having mat leave in this job, would like to get decent pay while on mat leave with this job and then maybe find a more chilled out job once I had a child. Can't imagine going on much longer through this job. Would I be unreasonable to ask my partner if he would want a child sooner in order to allow me to get mat leave at higher rate through this job?