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Whyhaveidonethis · 04/07/2019 21:46

FF put me as 3dpo today, cycle 10, cp at cycle 8. I'm on holiday in the sunshine so hopefully this will do the trick this month! Feel so hopeless after my CP so fingers crossed for this month.

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Ohana6419 · 05/07/2019 07:29

I'm 3DPO today so just a day behind you. I hate the waiting so much! When do you plan on testing? I'm going to try to wait until 12DPO but I know I'll probably cave and test at 9 lol

Michellebops · 05/07/2019 09:02

It's ov day for me.

Cycle 7
Had a laparoscopy 2 weeks ago, cysts removed and division of adhesions including uterus and ovary separated.

Managed to dtd twice without too much pain 👍🏻 second time last night so fingers crossed I've done enough for this month 🤞

Good luck girls ❤️

maria2bela · 05/07/2019 09:31

1dpo over here 😂....When do you plan on testing @Whyhaveidonethis

Whyhaveidonethis · 05/07/2019 12:05

Hello all, I'm planning on testing at 12 dpo, but will undoubtedly be testing from 9dpo and winding myself up getting BFN!! I got a BFP on a FRER at 11dpo for my chemical pregnancy so I am slightly worried about testing early

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Whyhaveidonethis · 05/07/2019 12:07

@Michellebops that sounds hopeful then, at least you are in with a chance. I fell with dc3 immediately after a similar operation

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Michellebops · 05/07/2019 12:14

I don't test early anymore for the disappointment.

Thank @Whyhaveidonethis I fell pregnant after the same operation a year ago but sadly had a mmc at 12+ weeks.

So nervous and excited all at the same time.

It's my last chance at conceiving as if I'm not pregnant by end of the year or may decide sooner I'm going to stop and just enjoy our little triangle family ❤️

maria2bela · 05/07/2019 12:43

@Whyhaveidonethis sorry to hear about your CP btw. You're right, testing early often leads to disappointment..Hooefully we can encourage each other to old out until a realistic DPO to test x

@Michellebops I really do hope this month is your month :) :)

Michellebops · 05/07/2019 13:22

Thank you @maria2bela 😘

Whyhaveidonethis · 05/07/2019 16:26

Be good to have some moral support to hold off testing @maria2bela. Fingers crossed for us all.

I feel a bit nauseus this morning, and DP asked if it's because I could be pregnant. Sadly had to inform him that his sperm don't work that fast!! 😂

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maria2bela · 05/07/2019 19:56

@Whyhaveidonethis haha if only eh?! Aww I really do hope we get a string of bfps in the next 2 weeks.

In the mean time does anyone care to share any tips for best times to DTD when TTC, I've read that although people do 3 days after they a positive OPK, the best time is actually the few days before that?!

Ohana6419 · 05/07/2019 20:57

@maria2bela The best days are actually the three leading up to ovulation. Ovulation day itself and the day after has some chance, but those three days are even better. So, if you're waiting for a positive OPK, given that you might ovulate that day or the next day, you might miss the best days!

Good article on the studies for this here: www.avawomen.com/avaworld/fertility-calendar/

Chanel05 · 05/07/2019 21:16

Hi! I'm 3dpo today, cycle 10 also after mmc cycle 8.

maria2bela · 06/07/2019 00:25

@Ohana6419 That makes a lot of sense! Hmm not so sure anymore that I've been busy on the right days sigh

We shall see anyway! Thanks for the link, going to have a read now.

Whyhaveidonethis · 06/07/2019 00:30

Hi @Chanel05 I think we were on a thread together before. Sorry about your mmc. I had a chemical 2 cycles ago and it's horrible.

I think we've dtd too much this month!!!

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Chanel05 · 06/07/2019 09:34

@Whyhaveidonethis oh yes of course! We have crossed paths before. Why do you think you've dtd too much?

I'm totally confused now. I've had a 0.5 degree temp drop this morning and ff has reassessed my fertility pattern, I also got a +opk. However, I've been having high temps so goodness knows what's going on Confused

Whyhaveidonethis · 06/07/2019 18:36

@Chanel05 how bloody frustrating. Maybe discard the temperature and wait to see what happens tomorrow?

@maria2bela I just have as much sex as possible over the 5 fertile days and ov day and after. I see very little of DP so I take every opportunity lol.

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Islandermum · 06/07/2019 20:52

@Chanel05 might just be a deviating temp, I get them quite a bit and just discard them, however you very well might've ovulated later than you think!
I'm 1dpo today or ovulation day (different depending on each app!), Pretty sure I'm 1dpo as EWCM disappeared and all OPKs have returned to low.
Already feel crampy and periody but maybe that's just all the sex 😂 does anyone elses OH just become over the moon during fertile week or is it just mine? He said to me last night..."will this last after ovulation..." with a longing look. Don't want to let him down but no it won't 😂

Cycle #2 for me, had an early (unplanned pregnancy) miscarriage in May and have been trying since! Not sure I actually ov'd last cycle so really this might be the first actual cycle.
What dpo are you all on now ladies? Anyone symptom spotting already?

maria2bela · 06/07/2019 23:07

@Islandermum sorry to hear about your MC, hopefully this month is your month c

I think I'm 2/3dpo, today I've felt quite mood swingy, could be a sign of AF due to turn up next week 😣 I suppose we won't know until the time!...Have you been symptom spotting?

Islandermum · 07/07/2019 11:34

@maria2bela you wouldn't be pregnant yet so don't rule yourself out too soon. Are you feeling any better today? Baby dust to you 🧚

maria2bela · 07/07/2019 13:07

@Islandermum I always think the worst!... Yes feel ok today still a bit moody but won't know until next week if AF shows up 😒

Whyhaveidonethis · 07/07/2019 14:43

I'm 6dpo today, even though I know it's stupidly early I want to test. Lol. I'm fairly sure I've not caught this month though

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maria2bela · 07/07/2019 16:18

@Whyhaveidonethis Why do you think that? I know it's hard but try at least hold out until 8dpo as there's more chance of an early positive then (although still VERY early)

Whyhaveidonethis · 07/07/2019 21:51

@maria2bela I'm not testing. I'm away in the USA until later in the week so will test when I'm back home.

I was convinced I hadn't caught earlier then a minute ago my sense of smell was in overdrive, so who knows

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maria2bela · 08/07/2019 08:33

@Whyhaveidonethis Great! No testing until then lol!

I've got that dreaded feeling too, obviously I'm only 4/5 dpo but I feel completely normal...Ahhh I wish I had a remote to put my brain on pause...

Islandermum · 08/07/2019 19:04

@chanel05, @maria2bela @whyhaveidonethis How are we feeling ladies? I'm officially 3dpo today, still feeling quite good in myself, think I'm still riding on the ovulation high that you get!

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