Negative at 12 DPO - am I out?

[Daydreamer71]

Just that😔 af due Wednesday 3 July

It's still 5 days away, don't despair. Sounds like you have a long luteal phase so possibly could implant later.

No way are you out! Loads of ladies don't get positive test until after AF is due. A reason not to test early

Why don't you wait until Thursday (at least) and if still no AF test again.

I'm pretty much in the same boat at the moment im due AF between 1st to the 3rd July and tested BFN this morning but we are not out intil AF arrives good luck have you been having any symptoms @Daydreamer71

Thanks guys much appreciated. I'm only on cycle 4 which I know is nothing compared to others who really suffer but husband and I are still young and active etc so just thought it would happen quickly! A naive way to look at it I know.

I have a family get together later today- do you think I'll be ok with a beer or two?

Going to try and hold out until Thursday testing :)

@daydreamer71 I didn't get my bfp until day after af was due I tested day before a got the faintest of lines which was a real squinter so don't give up yet

If you are using first response tests I would say you should see something by now if you have been successful. If your using any other brands you might have another day or two

In terms of the drinking - "drink until it's pink"