Just lost my baby girl and back on ttc anyone else ttc after a loss of an angel?

[Hopefulprincess]

So yesterday my sweet girl was brought into the world after heart beat stopped last week. I’m determined to ttc again, my womb has been cleaned out and the surgeon said il be most fertile in 2 weeks. Il get my baby back after the tests are done in 4 weeks to lay her to rest . Was my 4th loss in a row but my furthest and I’v told myself this rainbow will be a keeper 💖🥰

I'm so sorry for your loss, well all your losses. I wish you the best of luck for your TTC journey from here on out.

I’m so very sorry, no advice but thinking of you and hoping you get your Rainbow baby 🌈 xx
I’ve been pregnant 3 times, I had a miscarriage when I was 20, a miscarriage at 38 and then gave birth to my beautiful DS age 39. He was worth the wait xx

Oh my goodness I'm so so sorry. Please allow yourself time to come to terms with the grief you must be suffering.

Be kind to yourself and don put pressure on ttc again so quickly.

Hopefully recurring miscarriage will help and identify the issues.

Take care ❤️

I'm sorry to hear that. Yes, I'm TTC after having my 12 week scan om 24th May and finding out that is had a MMC at 8+4. Been TTC since 10th June so fingers crossed for both of us. Sending my love xx

Take care and good luck

I'm so sorry to hear this. I had MMC and a d&c last Friday. Just waiting for bleeding to stop before ttc. It's very confusing, information and advice varies, but most common is allow yourself time to grieve before trying again.

Thank you 💔
I still can’t believe it! I thought this time was different 😭
I’v ordered opks doc reckons 2 weeks and will o and many don’t get af as conceived straight away so we’ll see! Sorry for all your losses too xx

@Disco3000 your still bleeding??? Oh no I was hoping mine would stop after like 5 days but day 3 it’s not easing up 😓

Day 4 now I mean, forgot was Friday

Yeah though it's getting much lighter a week after d&c preg tests still positive, will try again in a week.

Sorry to hear of all your losses ladies. I had an erpc on 2nd May after mmc. Finished my first af on Tuesday, 2 days of sticky cm and then today red blood again 😔.

I'm also in the wait to get back to TTC once I have stopped bleeding

Last week I just new something wasnt right and a scan confirmed it. Thankfully started bleeding naturally yesterday...sounds like it may go on a while though then!! Sorry for everyone's losses 😢

@Disco3000 I stopped bleeding after 10 days. I got a negative hpt after 3 weeks. I ovulated 4 weeks and 2 days after surgery and got af exactly 6 weeks after surgery.

@Hopefulprincess

I’m so sorry for your loss , I also lost my baby girl this month . I was 25+4 when she was born sleeping 😓

Do you mind me asking how far along you were ? I was told it’s best to wait until after first proper period and even then I’m worrying that something’s going to go wrong again . ( also want to wait for the placenta test to come back )

The thing is she was a happy oops ! My children are 17, 16 and 10 and I’m coming up to 36 so am petrified at actually “trying” .... I feel like I’m too old and the age gap between the children is worrying me . I’m torn as wether I should try again or not .

One minute I just want to be pregnant again and the next I panic , it’s such an emotional roller coaster isn’t it

So sorry ladies! Least in a way we’re not alone 😫🥰
I had a positive opk yesterday and a negative today so il take it today is o day! We dtd yesterday and today only as wasn’t mentally ready and was sore. My results from baby should be back in 2 weeks so just incase fall this month if anything need to do there’s time! My personal results came back and all my levels are ok. Baby they said was around 4 months but was too small I thought was younger but had features it shouldn’t have if was smaller so il get all accurate info when results come back! They are sure was a girl but again don’t want to call it her until absolutely sure! Looked a girl on scan though 🤷‍♀️
Where is everyone else in the ttc bus?

Hey @Hopefulprincess good news that you are fine at least and not long to wait now for results on your little one.

That's great you ov'd already. I stopped bleeding on Wednesday and now waiting to ov again. Not started the opk's yet...

Anyone know whether usually your cycle is longer/shorter??

Sorry for your losses everyone - I'm hoping to start TTC soon I've got to have a second TFMR on Wednesday due to a genetic condition which has a devastating impact on any baby we have there's a 50:50 chance of it being passed on!
This will be the 2nd little boy I've had to lose (it doesn't only affect boys but I've just been pregnant with boys last twice) due to being affected by this condition! I'm 13 weeks. i do have a healthy DD who is 3.5 years old but struggling to get my second healthy baby! Everything looked great this time all trisomy results fine, was measuring big at every scan, moving around loads in the scans, string heartbeat - limbs, brain and heart developing normally so I'm absolutely devastated to get these result that he is affected!! Xx