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19dpo and AF 3 days late.. BFNs?

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Kodaboda · 05/06/2019 11:04

I'm 19dpo currently and my period is 3 days late and I'm usually like clockwork. I'm not sure when I ovulated as I didn't track this month. Me and DH DTD on my predicted day or ovulation and that was it really. I've taken 2 first response and 2 clear blue both BFNs. Is there any hope for me getting that BFP?? I'm going crazy I just need the witch to come so I can get on with this next cycle. Thanks ladies xx

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NLouise123 · 05/06/2019 12:52

Currently sitting a 16dpo! No sign of anything. Apart from some ewcm this morning!

Kodaboda · 05/06/2019 12:59

@NLouise123 have you tested yet? I have literally no symptoms of nothing.. Going a little crazy!

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purplefig · 05/06/2019 13:41

I'm not sure when I ovulated

Chances are you're not 19dpo in that case. As I understand, you don't really go past 18dpo without a BFP, so it's likely that you ovulated later than you think you did.

The predictions on apps are just a vague stab in the dark based on averages and, in some cases, past cycle info. To know when you ovulate you ideally need to be temping (best combined with OPKs) or if that's too much hassle, it might be worth investing in something like an Ava bracelet which tells you when you're fertile based on all sorts of factors.

Kodaboda · 05/06/2019 14:04

I agree it's pretty unheard of. I usually track with OPKs but I never bothered this month. As crude as it is I really don't know when conception if it has happened, when it happened because we DTD on my predicted day and once someday after that.. I really thought fr tests would have picked something up. Hoping AF doesn't come, but I'm sure she will. I'm just so confused because I feel completely fine. Al I have is white cm.

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purplefig · 05/06/2019 14:10

@Kodaboda In 'Taking Charge of your Fertility' the author says that after 18 days of sustained high temps after ovulation you can be pretty sure you're pregnant i.e. it's incredibly unlikely you'd get to 18dpo with no AF or BFP. So I would say it's pretty much certain that you ovulated later than you think. I'd hold off testing for a while and if no AF in a week, test again.

NLouise123 · 05/06/2019 17:20

@Kodaboda Yep, I tested 8dpo, and then waited a little tested 11dpo, 13dpo and yesterday. All BFN.

AdoraFlora · 05/06/2019 18:01

I'm the same as you. I've only just come off the pill so decided not to track things much this month. But if I believed my app (Clue) then I'd be at 17dpo now. I can only assume that I ovulated later than it said, or even haven't ovulated at all yet.

It's so frustrating, because there's nothing we can do except wait.

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