Help please im going insane!! 🙈

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I have followed mumsnet for at least 7 years now as i have two children ive got this far without ever posting but i seriously need advice...

I sadly suffered a missed miscarriage a few months ago and have been TTC (trying to conceive) since although my cycles are always irregular im currently on day 34 this cycle i am 11 DPO (days post ovulation) with a bfn today but ive been feeling really groggy, (im sorry for the info) at night time im seriously snotty, blocked up and sneezing like no tomorrow (i feel rubbish), im tired and been napping around teatime 😩

I just dont no what this is i really want a BFP (big fat positive) but maybe after 11 DPO (days post ovulation) i should take it as not this cycle? Please has anyone any advice could this just be pms??

Thank you 😘

Hi there,

Maybe it's too early 11DPO, which tests have you used? X

Which tests haven't i used used every cycle is more the point 🤣 ive tried everything but digital so far. I just dont remember feeling so poorly with pms before. I want to give up the tests and stop doing this to myself every cycle but its easier said than done x

This is not helpful advice in your situation but suppose all you can do is wait and see try take your mind off it. But like you said much easier said than done! Hope you get your BFP x

If you're pregnant enough to be getting symptoms you should in theory be pregnant enough to get a BFP.

Maybe it could just be a virus of some sort then 😩 af may aswell just hurry up and let me know whats happening