TTC in May

[MaryH90]

Anyone else out there starting to TTC in May? Getting a little nervous now it’s nearly time! Came off the pill in January and just bought Pregnacare Conception vitamins to start taking when my new cycle starts. Going to try and be relaxed this time (was crazy last time, took us 10m to conceive DD and felt like I was losing my mind by the end of it!). Anyone want to share the journey with me?

Hey, yes! I will be starting in May now I've officially got my credit card cleared! Im now a bit nervous too!!

How goes your OH feel about it? Mines a bit terrified after a traumatic labour last time!

He doesn't really talk about it, we have had jokey convos about kids. I wonder if he is worried now its creeping up! This will be our first. We had to put it back because I'd promised to clear debts which I hadn't done. I've worked really hard and I've done it finally.

Well done you! We’ve waited until DD turns 2 just to make things a bit more manageable with a new baby. I was ready for another straight away so it feels like it’s been a long time coming! Are you telling anyone you’re trying?

People at work know that im desperate and will be trying asap. I've told my mum we're thinking about it. Have you?

My mum knows but no one else. There’s a family occasion coming up to which turning up pregnant will go down like a lead balloon. We originally discussed waiting until after but decided not to put our lives on hold. So not going to tell anyone else in the family until we have to! And not comfortable telling anyone at work yet as my maternity leave will have a significant impact on them and I’m not sure theyll respond happily! So it’ll just be me, OH and DM who know until there are two lines on the stick!

We'll be trying in May - we're off on holiday to Turkey to celebrate our wedding anniversary and will start TTC then. I'm really desperate for a bfp but feel resigned to the fact it'll probably take a while. Me and DH have been taking pregnacare/wellman since February.