plz help me figure this out! has this happened to you?

[TheWiltedRose]

ok im ttc my 3rd dc and i am over 4 days late on my AF but so far all tests have shown a BFN..

i need to pee a lot more and i have bad gas too and feel like i need to poo but cant go (sorry if thats tmi lol)

i have a stomachache at night and i feel like i usually feel on my period except no proper period pains!

Please help me figure this out because i just want something to happen now one way or the other!

plz plz plz! stressfull person here needing some advise!!

Sorry WiltedRose I have no idea! I do know that if you are hoping to be pregnant virtually any symptom can feel like a sign of successful pregnancy. However what you are saying doesn't sound very conclusive and you are testing negative - I think you are just going to have to wait and see. Hope it works out for you.

thank u im just so confused coz my periods have always been reggulaer and i cant think why else it wouldnt come!

Wilted, my honest suggestion would be to think along the lines that you are not pg. As F&Z said, anything can look like a pg symptom but is very often just an af symptom (I wee more before af, and tend to get rather windy )
I know that not everyone gets a BFP at the time af is due, or even for a while afterwards, but according to the stats the majority of women will have had a bfp at this stage if that what it was.
I'm really sorry as this is no doubt not what you want to hear, and I really hope that if I'm right then you'll have better luck next time. But for now, try not to listen to the mini you on your shoulder telling you that "yes you are pg", etc.
Good luck

yeah ive pretty much realised its not pregnancy by now im just tryin to figure out where my af has gone! lol i just wanted to see if this had happened to anyone else!

perhaps anxious, and this had made you af late?

i mean perhaps thinking about it alot has messed up the cycle?

This happened to me not that long ago, I was about a week late but not pg. No idea why and afs back to normal again afterwards. This has also has just happened to my SIL too, again with no apparent cause.
Very annoying and cost a lot in tests!

lol thank god! i thought i was goin mad!! cheers 4 that

This happened to me pretty regularly for 4 years before I finally fell pregnant. I think the mind can have a lot more influence on the body than we realise. Please please try to relax. When I finally conceived I didn't test until I was nearly 8 weeks gone, when I had ruled out any other possible explanation.