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TTC first baby - thread 15

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starkid · 21/03/2019 11:30

Hi everyone, looks like it's time for a new thread! Thread 14 was lucky for some, so here's to lots more BFP's Smile

@Jessikka 28 Cycle 3
@starkid 29 Cycle 7
@MrsAW2018 24 Cycle 10
@TTC34 34 Cycle 3
@19Bee2 27 Cycle 2
@MrsH497 32 Cycle 4
@MrsR16 26 Cycle 9
@Lola871 31 Cycle 2
@ValidUser 28 Cycle 7
@DayDreamer1707 28 Cycle 5
@Flapjackered 31 Cycle 9
@DuchessofPemberley 32 Cycle 7
@KittieKath 34 Cycle 6
@KatBeCool 40 Cycle 10
@MrsMcNtobe Cycle 6
@BabySquid 29 Cycle 11
@PeacockingAbout 29 Cycle 4
@Sleepyquest 28 Cycle 2
@Granddesigns 32 cycle 4
@Pinkfizz19 33 cycle 4
@Catlady31 31 cycle 1
@LikeTheFruit 30 cycle 3
@Jooloo11 32 Cycle 3
@Daisiesandpeonies Cycle 10
@LuckyPenguin 34 Cycle 3
@Lizzie198 30 Cycle 2
@Rachel59pink 26 Cycle 1
@Orangeloo 31 Cycle 3
@Lemonysherbet 30 Cycle 1
@Fuiseog 31 Cycle 2
@NKB88 Cycle 2
@Wildrabbit Cycle 2
@Essjayycee Cycle 1
@Hannah192 Cycle 3
@JellyBaby666
@LoMoon Cycle 6
@Hiddenfigure Cycle 1
@Jc88146 Cycle 18
@Kay98 Cycle 16
@Lottiepink 29 Cycle 12
@Bec18x Cycle 4
@Soda123x 32 Cycle 2
@Aimingfor2019 28 Cycle 3
@Lifesforlivingandloving 32 Cycle 1
@MotherOfShihTzus 33 Cycle 14
@Cupcakesandglitter 23 cycle 10
@LokiCat
@Baby01988 30 Cycle 4
@Pinksunset1 28 cycle 3
@TonightJosephine cycle 1
@Toobies1 30 Cycle 5
@Blackfriars Cycle 3
@rosehm 28 Cycle 1
@SophWolf Cycle 1
@Thosethreewords Cycle 3
@Smitch82 37 Cycle 1
@Fivebyfive2 30 Cycle 8

Graduates thread - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/3527540-Catching-up-with-those-from-TTC-thread-3

Sorry if I missed anyone, and happy baby-making!

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Fuiseog · 04/04/2019 19:27

I can't believe it! So so overjoyed and really wasn't expecting it this month after some big shocks in my personal life this last week, but did feel I had to test today after such a weird night last night. AF would have been due on Sunday so imagine I'll continue to test for a bit... Can't get the photo to show the colour of the lines accurately - a bit darker in real life but not the same as the control line. So happy and will have to try hard to be cautious as it's such early days and nothing is certain. In case anyone is interested, have had nothing in the way of a symptom except some cramping at 2 and 3 DPO and again around 7,8,9 DPO (but I was putting that down to emotional shock not related to TTC) and then my weird cramp situation last night. Nothing else at all!

Crossing fingers for a sticky bean and for everyone here!

TTC first baby - thread 15
Fuiseog · 04/04/2019 19:29

@KatBeCool I meant to tag you above in relation to having really no symptoms I noticed as different until last night, and that was only for two hours, so I also think that sounds fine!

thosethreewords · 04/04/2019 19:49

@cupcakesandglitter it may just be random! I didn't even think about it being a sign tbh as I thought it would be too early

@KatBeCool fx for the weekend!!

MrsH497 · 04/04/2019 19:57

Hi ladies sorry for being so absent had the shittest couple of weeks culminating in putting our first pet down today. I need some good things to happen x

cupcakesandglitter · 04/04/2019 20:02

Congrats @Fuiseog ❤️ xx

@thosethreewords I think it's too early too, but I'd log it in an app anyway!! X

Ladies can I ask a TMI question? So I had very very light barely there spotting for a few days but AF turned up this morning. It looks black (or a v v dark brown) I was standing up earlier, and felt it sort of 'fall out' and ran to the bathroom. I was super heavy as a teen but since I came off contraception I've been medium so I was a bit surprised at the feeling again. Ran to the bathroom and heres the TMI bit I had a MASSIVE black stringy clot, around the length of a five pound note. This is super unusual for me, I usually pass clots that are literally a dot - the only time I had anything similar was a miscarriage years ago. This was a couple of hours ago. I've felt really nauseous all day, almost as if I haven't eaten anything in days (I have) and I've just gone to the bathroom and there's pretty much nothing, only a bit of tan coloured blood only when I wipe. I'm super confused, does anyone have a clue what's going on?

cupcakesandglitter · 04/04/2019 20:02

Oh @MrsH497 I'm so sorry, losing a pet is heartbreaking 😩 sending love xxx

AysLon · 04/04/2019 20:22

@ fuiseog omg Congrats! Best of luck to you.
@MrsH497 im so sorry, they are one of your family it's heart breaking.
@cupcakesandglitter That doesn't sound good. Is it similar to your MC ? Was AF due?

AysLon · 04/04/2019 20:23

@cupcakesandglitter ahh just re read and u said AF had already started.

cupcakesandglitter · 04/04/2019 20:25

@AysLon it is similar sort of looks wise (different colour) but I don't have the pain with it, I guess I can't figure out if it's just a random abnormal AF but the nausea is making me doubt it

smitch82 · 04/04/2019 21:07

@cupcakesandglitter I got nauseous with AF last month it was really late. I would go and get checked out just in case.

rose555 · 04/04/2019 21:14

@fuiseog congratulations!!!!! What wonderful news for you 💗

cupcakesandglitter · 04/04/2019 21:56

Thanks @smitch82 I'm gonna see how I feel tomorrow and take it from there xx

KatBeCool · 04/04/2019 22:08

@Fuiseog I had a feeling you'd be pregnant! Congratulations! I guess we'll hope for some two hour long pain that wakes me up. How many dpo are you?

Thank you all for keeping my hopes up.

Chocol4te · 04/04/2019 22:16

We are TTC (trying to conceive) for 3 months now, not long I know but I am becoming really impatient now haha, I was on a pill for ages and stopped taking it last May, we've just started to conceive this year in Jan, my period was never regular and quite long, now I am on day 41 (never had a cycle this long) and took few tests all negative, I am monitoring ovulation with Clear Blue Digital and got a peak on day 15 , but now 26 days later no period no BFP (big fat positive), I am pretty sure I am not pregnant even if I had a couple of symptoms but what I am wondering is do I need to wait for AF to come before TTC (trying to conceive) again? Can I ovulate without AF to come ? I don't understand what my body is doing ☹️

thosethreewords · 04/04/2019 22:45

@Fuiseog congratulations!! I must have crossed post or something earlier because I didn't see it! Amazing news.

@MrsH497 💕 sending you much love. I grieved for my dog as much as I have for a "human" I've lost - I am so sorry for your loss.

@cupcakesandglitter that's really odd.. I can't explain that. It sounds almost like old blood? Could it be implantation? i agree - see how you feel tomorrow. I hope you have an uneventful night sleep. On the other hand, @KatBeCool I wish you a very eventful 2 hour pain at night soon in the hope you will go the same way as @Fuiseog!

KatBeCool · 04/04/2019 23:04

@MrsH497 oh no, I'm so sorry. My heart aches just thinking about ever not having my dogs.

@cupcakesandglitter that size of a clot would normally be a sign of concern. If anything unusual or painful happens in the next few days, see a dr. So I'm wishing you very uneventful body symptoms.

@thosethreewords hah, thanks for kind wishes.

@Chocol4te how late is your AF? It is not possible to ovulate again, however, if you didn't ovulate the first time despite the positive opk, your body will go through the motions again.

cupcakesandglitter · 04/04/2019 23:22

Thanks @thosethreewords @KatBeCool becoming more and more nauseous, won't be able to stay awake much longer so I'll check in tomorrow. Thanks both x

MrsH497 · 05/04/2019 04:31

@cupcakesandglitter @AysLon @thosethreewords @KatBeCool
Thanks ladies truly heartbroken my little hamster was everything (I know hamsters aren't a lot to many but she was our first pet) it has just totally flawed me. Work tonight has occupied my mind but thinking about her and everything yesterday evening before she was put to sleep makes me well up. Going to miss her xx

smitch82 · 05/04/2019 06:42

Weird day yesterday. I was driving and I felt really nauseous. Thought I was going to throw up 🤢 then (TMI) I did a sick burb in the evening just before bed.

I am due AF today and have felt cramps all week. Do you think it could just be AF messing with me?

Not had many other symptoms except bloating and back pain...

smitch82 · 05/04/2019 06:43

@Fuiseog huge congratulations btw - hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months xx

orangeloo · 05/04/2019 07:30

@cupcakesandglitter can you poas? That way you'll see if it is mc? Sorry if you've done that and I've missed it.

@Fuiseog congratulations!! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.

@KatBeCool got my fingers crossed for you! X

Fivebyfive2 · 05/04/2019 07:52

@cupcakesandglitter, hope you're feeling better this morning but I'd still call the Dr either way, just in case. Xxxx

@MrsH497, I totally get it, I always had hamsters (until we got the cat!) They're ace little animals. Xx

@Fuiesog, Woooooo 😃Congratulations!! Xx

Fuiseog · 05/04/2019 07:53

Thank you, @cupcakesandglitter @Ayslon @Rose555 @KatBeCool @thosethreewords @smitch82 and @orangeloo !!!
Really hope I didn't miss anyone but thank you all just in case - the support on this thread is so lovely.

@KatBeCool I got a BFN the morning I was 9 DPO, tested quite early due to local chicken pox outbreak I was worried about! So then decided I wouldn't test again till the weekend, but that night I had the cramps and it was so out of the ordinary, so tested the next morning at 10 DPO and up came the second line! And let me be honest, there was not even a glimmer of a hint of a shadow of a line on the test the day before - I was lighting it with the torch from all directions 🙈

@MrsH497 So sorry to hear about your loss, we have cats and I just adore them, I know how much love we can give our pets x

Fuiseog · 05/04/2019 07:54

And thank you @fivebyfive2 ! Must have posted at the same time Smile

TrulyMiss · 05/04/2019 08:30

@Chocol4te it can just take a while to settle after coming off the pill as @KatBeCool says, if you didn’t ovulate on day 15 your body may have tried again later. Hard to know now as you can’t test for it. I’m in the same boat, my cycle has yet to settle properly after coming off the pill.