I am out this month :(

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Today is day of AF but no show yet. Have felt tired, waves of nausea, bloated with on and off cramps but different to AF cramps and just generally not right for about 3 days.
Should be either 12/13 dpo today (cycle 28-31 days) today is 31 and just got a BFN.
Does this mean I’m out this month? What’s happened to my period, I always get period pains a few days before AF and nothing this time so I don’t even feel like it’s on it’s way.

I didn't get a bfp until af was 10 days late! It's not over until af shows up xx

If I was pregnant thought, if it’s enough to be feeling dizzy and nauseous wouldn’t it show up on a test by now?

Give it a few more days and test again. You won't know either way unless you get af or a bfp

Yeah that’s true. I just always thought with these early detection tests they would pick up pregnancy before AF was due. Considering I am due it today surely if it was going to be positive it would be by now?