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TWW starts now part two

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agteacht · 24/02/2019 13:17

I think we filled the thread ladies! It won't let me post since yesterday

@Scottish1 @ShortandSweet96 @Doris19 @Lauraliverpool @HeartvsHead
Hope haven't forgotten anyone

A huge congrats to @Scottish1 on your BFP

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Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 15:16

@JadeSB thank you, I feel so hopeless and numb. Got my little boy to keep me strong, my amazing hubby, mum and in laws. X

Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 15:19

@Kinsella82 thank you. Xx

JadeSB · 03/04/2019 15:26

@Lauraliverpool it's perfectly normal to feel like that, you'll probably feel like that for a while, I certainly did for the best part of a month, but you gotta stay strong, and try not to let it consume you x

Doris19 · 03/04/2019 16:03

@Lauraliverpool oh my love so so sorry to hear this, really there are not words. Sending lots of love and thoughts are with you. Xxx

Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 18:06

@JadeSB just going through everything in my mind, hour by hour, day by day, will try my best. X

Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 18:07

@Doris19 thank you for your kind words. Xxx

JadeSB · 03/04/2019 18:09

@Lauraliverpool just remember not to blame yourself, there is nothing you could have done or changed, what will be will be, it's just one of life's cruel tricks 😞

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agteacht · 03/04/2019 18:57

Oh @Lauraliverpool I'm so so so sorry to hear this. Truly gutted for you. Take time and be kind to yourself. Xxxxxxx

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Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 20:05

@JadeSB there is a part of me that can't help but blame myself, it's one of life's cruelest tricks.

Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 20:07

@agteacht I will do, thank you for your kind words. Xxx

JadeSB · 03/04/2019 20:47

@Lauraliverpool I know it is so easy to torture yourself, I had a night out the day before I found out I was pregnant and when I miscarried 8 days later I blamed myself for drinking, but sometimes as much as it destroys you, things just aren't meant to be, the doctor told me that it would be because there was something wrong e.g not enough chromosomes or something like that. Please don't beat yourself up over it, it will do your mental health no good💐

HeartvsHead · 03/04/2019 20:49

@Lauraliverpool I was so hopeful for a different outcome for you. I am so sorry to hear your news. Glad you have loved ones around you. There is nothing you could have done xxx

Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 22:41

@JadeSB that's what they said to me today that it wasn't anything I'd have done, I know it won't do me any good and my health. X

Lauraliverpool · 03/04/2019 22:43

@HeartvsHead I was so hopeful too thinking surely life can't be cruel a third time. Want to say thank you all for all your kind words today girls. Xxxx

Kinsella82 · 05/04/2019 07:17

Well that's a stark bfn for me with fmu on a frer at 13dpo. Af due today. I am going to try and move on for this month because I have obsessed. Gutted as we really did everything this month and still got it wrong :( I so so so wanted this this month

JadeSB · 05/04/2019 16:26

@Kinsella82 sorry to hear 😞 I feel your pain, I'm on cd 10 and I'm adamant I'm not going to chart ov this cycle as I've become so obsessed with it that I feel it's taking over my life and the stress is sabotaging my chances 🤔

JadeSB · 05/04/2019 17:00

@Lauraliverpool how you holding up?

Lauraliverpool · 05/04/2019 18:05

@JadeSB just on my way home from the hospital, surgery went ok, have to have a scan next Friday as the doctor wants to make sure everything went ok. Was very well looked after. Xx

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agteacht · 05/04/2019 19:48

Big hugs @Lauraliverpool
Thinking of you.

So sorry @Kinsella82 - it will happen

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Lauraliverpool · 05/04/2019 20:57

Thank you @agteacht 😘 xx

Doris19 · 07/04/2019 06:43

@Lauraliverpool so sorry you have had to bear so much trauma. At least it sounds like you had a more empathetic doctor/nurse this time. Thinking of you.

My gp referred me straight to fertility consultant. I was a bit surprised as I was expecting him to at least do a few blood tests etc. Then again I am 37, and been trying a while with history of endometriosis 🤷‍♀️ He did suggest it could be high prolactin which can be brought on by stress (I have a high stress job).

AF in full flow today so about to start soy isoflavones for this cycle. Read up a lot on this now.🤞

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agteacht · 07/04/2019 08:21

Hey @Doris19 did he test your prolactin? I really hope you have a high level as mine came down and got BFP within 6 weeks of tablets. So high prolactin is a great problem to have compared to others as you know it can be solved so quickly. I will be intrigued to hear if the soy works for you. Are you doing 2-6?

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Kinsella82 · 07/04/2019 10:29

Af arrived today :(

Lauraliverpool · 07/04/2019 11:58

@Doris19 was really taken care off and the staff that looked after me were really caring. That's positive you are being referred to a fertility consultant rather than having to first go through the blood tests. Everything crossed this cycle. Xx
@Kinsella82 sorry to hear AF arrived. Xx

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agteacht · 07/04/2019 13:03

Sorry @Kinsella82 :(

Hope you are coping okay @Lauraliverpool xx

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