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Feeling pregnant but no bfp yet

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Mum637k · 18/02/2019 09:35

Hi ladies,
I've been pregnant before and feeling similar symptoms but AF not due for a few more days. I have tested a few times with different tests, all came back negative. AF is due in 5 days so I tried a clearblue digital but came back negative. I know it might still be early or I might just be imagining my symptoms. Anyone have a similar experience? Did you end up being pregnant or not?

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Pop1234 · 15/03/2019 16:32

@Mum637k it's not fair is it. Fingers crossed for us both. Have you got any FRER for this cycle?

Mum637k · 15/03/2019 18:45

@Pop1234 i have my fingers for us too😊 no frer this cycle. Only if I were to get a positive on a cheapie. I guess I have made some progress since last cycle even if it's little 😂 did you get feedback yet from the doctor's?

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Pop1234 · 15/03/2019 18:56

@Mum637k I spent about £60 on frers last month. No way am I doing that again 😂 I definitely think you have improved though.

No nothing I haven't even chased them up today. They did tell me a letter would be with me Saturday morning but I'm not betting on it tbh.

Pop1234 · 15/03/2019 18:56

@Mum637k thank you for asking btw Thanks

Mum637k · 15/03/2019 20:30

@Pop1234 of course, I can only imagine how hard it must be. Give yourself a pat on the back, you're doing really good 😊 I hope the letter comes through soon. Sending you willpower for this weekend, send me some too 😂

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Pop1234 · 15/03/2019 20:40

@Mum637k thank you. It's tough but hoping we will get our good news sometime soon. I think I'm worrying as they already sent one letter giving the all clear then I queried if it included the chromosome test we both had and so then she passed it back to the consultant to check and now they've said they are sending another letter. But I guess it could just be a a clarification letter. But then I'm worrying they've found something in the chromosomes. Fingers crossed though!!

Sending you lots of will power. Do you think you can do it?

Mum637k · 15/03/2019 20:47

@Pop1234 they are terrible, should really be putting your mind at ease but instead just make you worry. Sorry you have to go through this :( it will be okay, there is always a solution. It might be a little different than what you planned but I believe it will all work out and you will get the family that will make you happy 😊 I don't know if I can do it 😂 I would like to say I can, but it all comes down to free time for me. As soon as I have a free minute my mind might drift to this topic and then I get the urge to check. That's why I hot the cheapie ones for this month because there 50 in a pack and I'm not wasting much if I cave. If I am pregnant then I will find out eventually anyway and in the meantime I can waste 50 if I really wanted to 😂 used 2 so far 👍🏼

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Pop1234 · 15/03/2019 21:17

@Mum637k i know it doesn't seem fair. I'll let you know anyway if the letter comes 🙄

Yes I brought the pack of 50 ovulation strips off of amazon. I haven't used many though as I try not to be to psycho with tracking etc. Least we aren't spending big money like you say!!

Mum637k · 15/03/2019 21:26

@Pop1234 babysteps 😂 we are doing good

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Pop1234 · 16/03/2019 10:02

@Mum637k off in to town soon. Can I resist buying any frers? 🤷‍♀️😂

Mum637k · 16/03/2019 10:08

@Pop1234 yessssss you can! Shall we make a pact? How about we don't test until Monday? Btw I do recommend getting IC's from amazon, they satisfy my testing addiction 😂 Then if you really want to test it won't cost as much. How are you feeling symptom-wise?

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Pop1234 · 16/03/2019 12:06

@Mum637k well I've already failed and look!!!!! AF isn't due this Friday so it's an early one so I'm trying not to get too excited.

The postman didn't deliver any letters so for today I'm pregnant and positive (shitting myself).

I hope this is your month too!!!

Feeling pregnant but no bfp yet
Mum637k · 16/03/2019 12:17

@Pop1234 OMG YAYYYYYY!!!!! I'm so happy for you!!!!! Regardless of what that letter might say, this could be your first baby ❤️ A nice strong line for early testing too! How many dpo are you?

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Pop1234 · 16/03/2019 12:52

@Mum637k thank you. I'm so happy/excited/nervous. I'm only 10dpo I think, the line is quite strong isn't it. I thought I had a few symptoms, but didn't know if I was imagining them. How many dpo are you?

Mum637k · 16/03/2019 13:31

@Pop1234 how very exciting!😁 what are your symptoms? I hd a positive ovulation test on the 7th so I think I am 9 dpo. AF is due 25th though, seems like ages still 🙈

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badger561 · 16/03/2019 13:43

@Katy85 - sorry I have only just seen this. It's all so confusing isn't it my app says I should of ovulated on 11th this month and af due 25th March. I didn't want to start driving myself crazy with opks but think I'm going to have too as our bodies are so unpredictable🙄.
I've just been reading the thread and congratulations!!! Hope all goes wellSmilex

Pop1234 · 16/03/2019 14:41

@Mum637k I've had quite a lot of cramping and a lot of CM. But just a gut feeling in general. Have you got any symptoms?

Mum637k · 16/03/2019 14:44

@Pop1234 not much here, just cramping twice but could be anything. No gut feeling or anything so let's see 🤷‍♀️

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Pop1234 · 16/03/2019 15:35

@Mum637k keeping everything crossed for you 🤞

Mum637k · 16/03/2019 15:50

@Pop1234 thank you 💗 I'll be sure to update here once I know something

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Lolalou1 · 16/03/2019 16:15

I recently found out I’m pregnant 7.5 weeks and had some bleeding
I went to the a and e and they examined me and booked me in for a scan
At the scan the sac and yolk were present but they could not locate the fetal pole
I have to go back next week
I’m still bleeding on and off and have stomach cramps on and off
Am I miscarrying?

Lolalou1 · 16/03/2019 16:17

I’m so so sorry I have added the above to the wrong post and can’t see how to delete as my first time posting

Pinksunset1 · 16/03/2019 17:15

Hi ladies just a wee update I have to go for blood tests on Monday doctor was nice said I have to go for laparoscopy and dye test to check what’s going on as I have had pelvic pain recently and no AF since January. I have had laparoscopy before when checking for endometriosis but I am nervous.

Hope your all getting on ok x

Katy85 · 16/03/2019 22:20

@Pop1234 yay, that's a really good test line for 10dpo, mine was nowhere near that at 11dpo! I've had good progression lines for three days now
@Mum637k when do you think you can hold out to before testing, try for Monday if you can, will that be 11dpo?

Mum637k · 17/03/2019 08:36

@Pinksunset1 I hope it goes okay! Fingers crossed for you🤞🏻🤞🏻

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