Still no period - negative pregnancy tests

[Kal194]

I had a miscarriage on 2nd Dec, got my period on the 8th Jan and I’m now 9 days late for my period. I think I ovulated around day 17 of my cycle and I’ve been having unprotected sex all month. Is it possible that I may not have ovulated? I don’t know what’s going on with my cycles now and I’m getting worried.

Also, I was having sharp twinges in my left side of my reproductive system around the time I should have ovulated, that lasted a couple of days

Hi @Kal194 I could have written your post. My last AF also was on the 8th of Jan and so far I had a BFN and a AF no show. I think there is absolutely nothing we can do apart from let it stew at the back of our minds and wait for something to happen. Keep yourself busy and test again in 1 week. Fingers crossed it will be good news ❤️😉

My last af was 5th January....been having unprotected sex all through January....still no sign of af but have taken tests and all negative?!

Why is this happening to us?! 😭😭 I cant wait any longer lol

@Kal194 @Hoping87 Any update ladies? I'm CD42 today and nada 🤷‍♀️

@QuantumGirl cd46, 2 weeks late tomorrow....still nothing! 🤷🏻‍♀️

@QuantumGirl @Hoping87 well I’m so confused. I took a test on Saturday morning and I had a faint positive. Then I took one this morning hoping the line would be darker because hcg is supposed to double over 48hrs and it was negative. I’m having period cramps but no period. Just creamy cm. not sure whether to see my gp or not. What do you think? 🤔

@Kal194 I had exactly that. Faint line on the 9th Feb, no line in the 13th then ewcm on the 15th. I think it's worth seeing your GP and hopefully they will ask for a scan. I can only see mine on the 5th of March

I have heard of pregnancies that were only detected after 7 weeks. There is hope ☺️

Hi Ladies, the stress of ttc can also delay periods. Also a faint line is a positive and may be that you’re only ‘just ‘ pregnant or suffering what they call a chemical pregnancy.

I had 7 back to back misscarriages over 2 years and some months I was really stressed ttc I would be late

Have you all asked your doctors for a day 21 test? This will be a good indicator that you’re ovulating correctly.

Also requested a HCG blood test the next time you get a faint line.

Unfortunately they don’t seem to help a lot at early pregnancy units until after a 3rd loss.

In the meantime get your golden egg by taking a good quality co enzyme Q10 tablet and take daily. (Recommendation by a midwife) Around 90days later all that delicious Q10 is in your egg and that’s what got me my little boy today. I call him the golden child due to him being my golden egg.

Everything is worth a go!

I would also limit the feed to every other day.

I also went on the clear blue digital ovulation trial and realised I was ovulating 4 days earlier than my normal strip tests were showing.. think that’s how I managed to get pregnant often. But I honestly think the Q10 worked for me.. I was almost 43 having him

Good luck all and prayers sent your way that you all get that beautiful big second line on a pregnancy test soon

The deed not feed

@QuantumGirl My period has arrived. Feeling okay about it though, as this means something is happening and I don’t have to wait wondering what’s going on. Just very confused by the positive test I had. Hoping my next cycle I will catch and it’s not as long as this dreadful one 🙄 Hope something happens for you soon, waiting is the worst part. Good luck!

Hey everyone. First post 😬

CD40 here, but last few cycles have been around 30-33 days so I'm fretting too. Off pill for c. 9 months and cycles have varied a lot, I know this normal, bit none this long). Tried a test 2 days ago but BFN. Tried an OPK (bought a kit to use next cycle for 1st time, then in my fretting saw some people saying to try if unsure?) and that's negative too.

Nerve wracking isn't it?

PS Yes I had to Google all the acronyms and fingers crossed I got some right 😂😉

@Kal194 as much as we don't like AF, I'm glad she arrived for you so at least you can now look forward to the next cycle.

@soanxious72 thank you so much for sharing your experience. I was about to start my blood tests and taking CoQ10 but then no AF 🤷‍♀️. The only thing that really puzzles me is the faint double line that became a BFN. what was that about? 🤔

@wildrabbit Welcome 😀. Glad you joined us in this thread. You did very well with the acronyms 😉. Which OPK did you buy? My suggestion would be to leave it for now unless you get ewcm (if you normally do). Otherwise it will be a waste of money and it most likely will only tell you what you already know. It's a waiting game for us all but in the meantime feel free to share your frustrations here 😀

@Hoping87 out of curiosity, did you get ewcm at any point since your last period? Just trying to compare notes 😁🗒

Thank you Still waiting around for AF today. Off to work now to put it out of my mind for a few hours! I just picked up a basic kit in the supermarket to try next cycle. I'm using an app to help track things but know they're not that accurate. It's all a bit new to me!

@QuantumGirl if I’m honest I don’t really know....stopped taking the pill in October and stopped using contraception all together at the beginning of January and we just decided we would see what happens...I had 2 normal periods, one on 5th December and again 5te January so 31 day cycle but never really checked anything as we were just gonna see what happened....but now I’m 2 weeks late today I don’t know what to think?!

@Hoping87 it's probably your body adjusting being off the pill as you haven't been off it long. My advice is to download the Flo app and keep an eye on your dates and changes of mucus especially ewcm as it helps tracking ovulation 😉

Hey everyone, quite new to all this .... so stressed over pregnancy tests !! Took a test Saturday just gone ( which was a void test having 3 lines )
Waited a few days...
took one last night ... very very faint positive. Then took one this morning NEGATIVE ?
I’m free weeks late. Heart burn like crazy , headache, dizzy on & off ... tummy cramps.
Am thinking maby it is a negetive ? Period like cramps have just begun 🙄
Am so stressed... why does this happen to us !! 🤯🤯 have heard so many nice story’s about getting the “positive” I’m just stressed and waisting money on tests 😂 advice please ladies.... 🥰

@Lifesforloving1 sorry I just realised I replied to you on the wrong thread 🙄😅. I just wanted to keep everyone together on the loop.

I'm now CD45. Tested positive with a very faint line then negative then gave up on tests and carried on with life. Thinking of booking a holiday....🤔

I've been trying since June last year. Like you all I want is answers but my preferred GP doctor is only available on the 5th of March.

@Hoping87 how are you today? Any changes?

@QuantumGirl all good thanks, still no changes though! 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m away for the weekend next weekend so you just watch af rear her ugly head in time for that!

@QuantumGirl that’s exactly what happened to me with the faint line thing ..... I brought a test earlier, gunna do that in the morning and then no more if still negative ! When did you test ? I’ve been trying since March last year. 🙄🙄 🥰

@Lifesforloving1 good plan. I'm thinking of testing tomorrow too. 😉

@Hoping87 it's always the way, isn't it? 🙄

Joining here at CD35 - 4 days late and BFN on a CBD this morning. I’m out of town and only brought the one test with me so unless I find a pharmacy somewhere or AF shows up it may have to wait to test again til I’m back in a few days!

@LillianFullStop it might not be a bad thing. At least it takes your mind off the situation 😀