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When did I conceive?

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Littlestaar · 07/02/2019 04:23

Question!
I had my period nov 11,2018 and I’ve just went for an ultrasound they said I was about 8.5 weeks on feb 4th I had unprotected sex dec 7,2018 two different partners one dec 15 , 2018 ... who’s the father?

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Birdie6 · 07/02/2019 04:33

If you're 8.5 weeks you got pregnant about the 7th December. So it's probably the first man. But you'd need DNA to be positive of it.

Lellybelly54 · 07/02/2019 04:35

I'm going through a very similar situation with similar dates guy 1 December 4th. Guy 2 December 24th my I had a period in between them. I'm now 7.4wks. I've asked my midwife and she agrees it's very likely guy 2 but they won't give u a definite answer because they don't know and that's with a period in between. Looking at your dates I would say it's the 2nd guy for u too as your scan is dated from last period so u conceived 6.5wks from 4th Feb x

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Littlestaar · 07/02/2019 04:48

Feb 4th I was 8.5 weeks

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Littlestaar · 07/02/2019 04:49

I have stronger feeling it’s guy #1 as well

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Northernsights · 07/02/2019 04:56

Your dates suggest the second guy as pregnancy measured from last period, so conception would be 6.5 weeks from the scan date

Lellybelly54 · 07/02/2019 05:06

Scans are dated from first day of last period not conception date so you have to minus 2 weeks. Therefore on 4th February you conceived 6.5 weeks ago (first day of last period was 2 weeks before that which is why they said 8.5 weeks)

MyDisposableUsername · 07/02/2019 05:19

Can't be sure without a DNA test but it seems more likely to be the first guy, from your dating scan.

Also, do you normally have a regular length cycle? If it's around a 28ish day cycle, then wouldn't you have come on around when you slept with the second guy, if you weren't already pregnant?

flumpybear · 07/02/2019 05:38

If things were simple in pregnancy I'd be suggesting guy2. Period 11 nov so assuming you had another first week Dec. This was day 0 week 1. Usually by mid cycle conception approx so mid to late Dec I'd assume you'd fallen pregnant, 6 weeks later you'd be 8 weeks approx

HOWEVER this is theory only, the body works in strange ways and I was really regular and I didn't fall pregnant when I thought with my dates for my second child .... my husband had been out of the country for around a week when I fell pregnant so my body kept the sperm
Alive all that time (no, no extra marital stuff going on before you ask Shock) according to my early scans where I thought I was 6 weeks but foetal pole was only 5+1

Saying that, if you had no period in December than whom knows!!

I hope the sad is who you want it to be

flumpybear · 07/02/2019 05:38

*dad

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