Pregnant after 6 years trying!!

[AshBabyMama2019]

Hi guys first time posting so please be patient with me I know you guys use a lot of cool abbreviations and I am totally not in with the lingo But I just had to share for all the lovely ladies trying to conceive and having no luck! Me and my bf was trying to get pregnant for over 6 years! I am finally pregnant and so so happy! Don't give up ladies! It can happen!! I was never tested as I was always so so scared of hearing the dreaded words I couldn't conceive! I avoided the subject with so much hate I was so terrified of the dr saying it would never happen. I just kept trying and trying and trying and trying and FINALLY it happened for me! ... I know it's silly to not visit the doctor and to not get help but it's my own personally preference as I knew it would make me totally depressed to hear those dreaded words. I have always so desperately wanted to be a mama and I feel like all my wishes have come true. Good luck ladies I hope all your mama wished come true also

hi thank you for sharing your amazing story really gives me hope!
me and my fiancé have been trying for four years and have had 4 miscarriages (one last month). I also haven't been to get checked by a infertility doctor as after my 3rd miscarriage they basically said they was before 12 weeks so don't matter which was devastating and ever since I haven't been back and holding on hope for nature to take its course so your story is really encouraging!! was you on any supplements conceiving?
congratulations hope all goes well!!

@cindyluu I wasn't on anything it was all just completely natural! I was in total shock as I thought i was never guna get the chance to see that double line! I think I have looked at over 400 if not more single lines on the tests. Not even one with a slight double line. And then such a strong positive in such an unexpected month. I REALLY hope your wish comes true soon and you get that positive and a gorgeous healthy baby! Good luck ❤️

Congratulations OP, what an amazing story:) you must be ecstatic. Can I ask how old you are and if you did anything different? Why was it an unexpected month? I’m ttc #3 and it’s taking years...

@AshBabyMama2019 this is such lovely news. Congratulations

Congratulations OP and the best of luck on your journey!

@littlemimosa I'm 27 and it was so unexpected as I had totally given up. I stopped tracking my periods and stopped looking for every ovulation sign and stopped taking a test everyday 🙈 I just wasn't expecting it to happen as I had been trying so so hard for so long. I had met my Bf when was was 15 and we stopped using protection when I was 19 but wasn't 'trying' we started actively trying when I was about 21! Young I know but I just always wanted to be a mum! And finally I get my wish! xxxx

@kittycat01 @NicoleNoPants thank you girls so so much it means a lot ❤️❤️ xxxx

@littlemimosa the only thing different was that I wasn't totally obsessed with what my body was doing and stressing about it. Ano that is so so annoying. I used to read threads and think oh pleaseee stop telling me to stop obsessing I can't help it, I want it so so bad! But that is the only thing I can think of that was different that month! xxxx

Congratulations!!

OP, I read something the other day that said out fertility goes in approximate 7 year cycles, so you start periods at approx 14, your body starts to mature into your fertility at approx age 21 but that it's not until approx age 28 that your eggs are fully mature and your hormones and cycles are truly ready to have a baby. It could be just an old Chinese wivestale but i thought of it when i read your story.

Very interesting that you stopped focusing on everything and fell pregnant, how many times do we hear that on here!? Enjoy your pregnancy, it's an amazing time:)

@AshBabyMama2019 Massive congratulations to you!!! xxxx