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BFP. Nervous beyond belief

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patphelan · 31/01/2019 10:29

I am still in shock. Didn't expect to be this lucky. I had a miscarriage in June last year and also October last year. This is the first time we have tried properly since then.

I got my BFP this morning, I'm about 4-5 weeks pregnant. This is the earliest I've ever had a positive test, it's always been negatives up until 7+ weeks pregnant with previous pregnancies. I have 2 dds.

I'm so anxious, I am terrified I'm going to lose this baby too.

Anything I can do go help relieve the anxiety a bit? I've been to the docs this morning as I'm on sertraline for anxiety. He's not sure if I can continue taking it so he's going to let me know later today.

Sorry I can't tell anyone IRL yet

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emmagrace96 · 31/01/2019 12:48

Hi, congratulations ! I got my BFP on the Saturday just gone and I'm also about 4-5 weeks, 2-3 on clear blue 4-5 medically speaking and I'm so anxious about the exact same thing you are. I've been drinking chamomile tea, having nice bubble baths and doing gentle exercise to take my mind off any worries and to keep my nerves at bay, lots of walks as well are helpful for me and maybe talking it through with your partner, I will keep my fingers crossed for you but I'm sure everything will be fine, just try and stay positive x

AshBabyMama2019 · 31/01/2019 14:49

Congratulations GrinGrinGrinGrin also pregnant and so excited!! Yey all 2019 baby mamas 😍😍😍😍

patphelan · 01/02/2019 13:38

Thank you for your replies. I've unfortunately started miscarrying this morning. I had a feeling this may happen. I'm absolutely broken but I'll get through this again im sure. I wish you both the best of everything with your pregnancies and little ones ❤️

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HayleyD84 · 01/02/2019 14:25

@patphelan I am so so sorry you are going through this Sad

Sending you virtual hugs Flowers xxx

It's very positive that you catch well, fingers crossed for you this year xx

Can you start trying again next month or do you have to wait? xxx

coconutlatte44 · 01/02/2019 16:36

@patphelan, just wanted to say I am so sorry you are going through this, please take care of yourself in these coming days.

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