10days late & stil BFN :(

[Juliee92]

Hi..

Well my af is now 10days late (day 43 in my cycle)... i am gettin bfns although today i thought i seen a faint second line but im convinced it was evap as it had to squint to see it/go into better lighting and it also looked like a clear line rather than pink... ( i should of took a photo but didnt) or i just have major line eye :/ ... I am usually a 28/32 day cycle, i guess i can be abit irregular aswell but this is this longest i have gone without af since last dec/jan (2017/18) but that was due to a miscarriage so my body was still going back to normal... I guess i just want to know from other people whats the latest theyve gotten a bfp or if im just out for this mth and have to wait..

I am currently under fertility clinic at my local hosp after 4 yrs trying for baby 2 with 1 ectopic and 1 miscarriage. We are now currently waitin for a appointment to be referred for IVF. I got bloods taken on day 21 & 28 of this cycle to see if i have ovulated but stil not had my results as waitin on partners sperm results bein done. They reckon i might have pcos although they werent too convinced I have as I dont tend to have the right symptoms.....

I was 12 days late this month.
I have never been late ever. I miscarried in October and had normal AF in November and December.
I think it’s when I brains know we are trying they like to play games on us.
It may still happen this month you just ovulated late

its sooo frustrating... i can be irregular but im never this late on... I just wish i could have my blood results cause if i had them i would knw if i have ovulated at least by day 21 or day 28. I really need to start maybe trackin my ovulation i think with OPKS...

It is weird cause all i wanna do is look at baby stuff etc which isnt usually like me aswell... I did another test this evening (dnt know why) but stil a BFN :/ I am due to go for a scan on 6th feb with fertility to check a cyst i had on my ovary to make sure its disappeared and i am just hopin if i stil dont have a BFP/AF i might get some good news...

I did about 15 tests in the lead up until I got AF on Monday.
Even made the doctors take blood and an HCG test.
It makes us all seriously crazy 😜

Tell me about it... just wish AF would show up or a bloody BFP would appear so i can get workin on what to do next lol partner had his sperm test today and been told 2wks for his results so doesnt look like i will get any results before im next in at th clinic :(

We have to try for 3 months before allowed any tests.
I’m 40 next week, I thought I might have trouble ttc, but when I fell on the pill in September , I began think yay did it without trying

I am only 26, and ppl keep tellin me i have plenty time etc but i dnt want a huge age gap bad enough my boys 6 nw and stil not had another :/ i want to be done with kids by time im 30/31... i think we will only have another 1 but wouldnt mind another 2 if possible... nothin against bein older wantin kids btw i jst want mine young :/

I plan on havin sex tnyt and part of me hopes it brings my AF on so i can put my mind at ease... it usually does when im late although it didnt at the weekend 🤦🏻‍♀️

I have no ideas what all these abbreviations mean

PCOS polycystic ovary syndrome AF aunt flo/period BFN big fat negative BFP big fat positive ...