12dpo BNF - positive stories?:(

[ShortandSweet96]

I'm.the worst person for TTC, incredibly impatient, work myself up a storm with symptoms spotting, can't handle the "it will happen when you relax" comments and I always feel so down for so long after a BFN.

I'm 12 dpo today, possible 11dpo as different apps tell me I ovulate 11th/12th. I have a 33 day cycle. I did a FRER with my second morning urine (took the dog to the vet so could hold on to my first!) And it couldn't be anymore negative!

I keep reading people's BFP stories 6 days before their period with FRER but I'm 3 days until AF and nothing :(

Anyone have any positive stories after 12dpo?!

I’ve never had a bfp before 12dpo, several times got a bfn at 12dpo even with a frer then got a bfp on 13 or 14.

I know it sucks. Relaxing means fuck all so just ignore anyone banging on about that! Distractions on the other hand do help so try and keep busy and I wish you luck

It is possible to implant as late as 12 dpo so you're not out yet!

I really hope so.
Bloody OH sat here telling me "don't think about it, just stop thinking about it, wait until you don't come on your period then you'll know for sure, stop trying to make everything a symptom" I don't think he understand that I can't just switch my brain off

Since 4dpo I've had a pulled muscle, crampy type feeling low down, more pronounced if I like on my front or if I'm stretching, h
Had mildly tender boobs, only noticed this while walking down stairs lol, and last couple of days I've felt a bit sicky. I really hope it's good news rather than bad.

Thanks for the reassurance ladies!